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Comment by sk8eycat on January 14, 2013 at 3:10pm Joan, the only fact I knew for sure from the time I was about 13 (after doing a lot of baby-sitting to pay for skating lessons) was that I never, ever wanted to have children. I'm too self-centered to be a decent parent; sometimes even the daily cat care gets on my left nerve.
Mother kept telling me that I'd change my attitude once I had a baby (she was terribly anxious to be a grandmother), but I didn't think it would be fair, or safe, for the child to take such a risk.
I got pregnant 3 times (before the Pill), and got violently ill before I even missed a period every single time. So I had 3 abortions before the 6th week...all illegal, of course. A lot of people helped me find real MDs who were willing to do D&Cs on the sly.
I still sometimes think I should be ashamed, but I don't. I think it's a worse "sin" to bring an unwanted child into the world than it is to abort one...or 3. There are too many unwanted, abused, lonely children as it is.
Comment by Joan Denoo on January 14, 2013 at 2:29pm sk8eycat, We learned so many things that are not true. I guess that is what growing up means ... question authority, think for yourself, enjoy today for this is all there is, and appreciate natural things.
By the way, in the movie, "Look'n at daddy" there is scene that looked like our house at feeding time 48 years ago.
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Comment by sk8eycat on January 14, 2013 at 2:19pm Joan, thank you. Stuff like that just takes my breath away.
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Comment by Idaho Spud on January 14, 2013 at 12:25pm Thanks Steph and Atheist Cat. That's one of my favorite sayings.
Babyfood cat made me smile.
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Comment by booklover on January 14, 2013 at 8:05am Good Monday morning to all! Great lol cats Steph! :) Both of my 'kids' start their classes today. My son and I are sharing a car until we find one for him to buy, so I am a house-bound housewife! I am sort of looking forward to some quiet time, and getting more cleaning done (ALWAYS cleaning with 3 cats and a Labrador Retriever in a small home!) We will see how long I can stand it! lol. My Mom would come get me and take me anywhere I want to go if really need to though.
My daughter and I have stopped eating wheat after reading "Wheat Belly." I am hoping it stops my symptoms from my neuropathy of the digestive system. Or at least makes me lose a few pounds!
I hope everyone has a good week!~ Melinda
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