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Seeing Things (TheraminTrees)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on Thursday. 2 Replies

TheraminTrees doesn't release videos very often these days,  but when he does, they are positive GEMS.  Most recent of his works is the following, wherein he dismantles some of the common rebuttals atheist get from believers when we assert our…Continue

Tags: seeing things, YouTube, TheraminTrees

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Feb 15. 4 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

You'll NEVER Guess Who Just Showed Up on Mr. Deity!!!

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 14. 11 Replies

I don't believe this one either, but ... well, here it is: And would you believe - Mr. D made me laugh!  RD, that is!Continue

Tags: Richard Dawkins, Mr. Deity

Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Feb 6. 20 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Seth Andrews' New Book, "Sacred Cows" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Patricia Feb 6. 7 Replies

For the last few podcasts, Seth Andrews has been alluding to a new literary effort he's been working on.  Well, the cat is out of the bag ... or perhaps I should say, the cow is out of the barn!  Seth's new opus is entitled: Sacred Cows: a…Continue

Tags: book, Sacred Cows, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

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Comment by sk8eycat on December 20, 2012 at 3:19pm

Solstice Customs and historical stuff:

http://www.timeanddate.com/calendar/december-solstice-customs.html

There's also a very technical article about the Myan/Aztec calendars and cycles on another page on this site.  Something to send your friends who think the world is gonna end tomorrow (IF you know anybody that dumb.)

Comment by sk8eycat on December 20, 2012 at 3:03pm

dr. kellie: Sounds like you're having the cold, dry, gusty wind we had here (SoCal) on Tuesday. 

My 2 cats acted like it really was the end of the world even though it was warm enough in here.  I guess it was the sound of the wind whistling through the trees, and dead leaves skittering across the yard and against the house.  Poor kittehs couldn't find any place they thought was safe (both of them spent most of their lives in big catteries); they don't know what things like cardboard cartons, pillows, and deep closets are for.  They don't even know that beds are for hiding under.

BUT the wind stopped suddenly around 10PM, and didn't start up again.  It's still cold, but calm.

Comment by Ian Mason on December 20, 2012 at 2:29pm

It's always nice to see happy people, no matter what their gender, inclination, ethnic background. A smile is the shortest distance between people.

Denmark is chilly and damp at the moment with snow or sleet/freezing rain on the way and I'm working this weekend. Bugger! I would have enjoyed a couple of days at home in the warm with cocao and a good book. Oh well, there'll be another chance for that before the winter's over.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 20, 2012 at 2:16pm

Joan, those two men are charming!  I'm so happy for them.

Comment by Joan Denoo on December 20, 2012 at 2:08pm

Here are our two happy whiskered grooms, this time, not in flannel, but in suits, with vests! www.RingsOnOurFingers.com

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 20, 2012 at 2:07pm

By the way, I hope I haven't insulted the numerous fine people here who live in Texas in places other than Austin and San Antonio!

Comment by dr kellie on December 20, 2012 at 1:42pm

Here in Texas there is a cold wind blowing.  I was in the yard yesterday to cut down a dead tree and I was sweating up a storm, and bitching to myself about why it was so damn hot in December.  All that changed overnight.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on December 20, 2012 at 1:29pm

Hi, Steph.  Thanks for asking about us.  You're so nice!  Hope all is well with you in Austin (the one place in Texas I enjoy going to......oh, and the river walk in San Antonio.)  We're supposed to be hit with a snow storm later tonight here in Northern Illinois.  First snow of the season.  We've actually set a new record for number of days without snow.  The effects of global warming?  Whatever the case, this situation is not 'normal.'  It will be interesting to see how intense this storm will be.....the media usually has a way of over-sensationalizing these events, especially the first big snow of the season.  The worst part is supposed to be the high winds.....30 to 40 miles per hour with wind gusts 50 to 60 MPH.  Chicago is only supposed to get 1 to 3 inches, but Northwest Illinois, where Booklover lives (Hi, Melinda!), may get considerably more. 

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 20, 2012 at 12:19pm

While writing my last post, it dawned on my that I should put "Atheist Nexus" after my subject in the box.  I just did, and it appears to work.

Comment by Idaho Spud on December 20, 2012 at 12:15pm

Steph, you're in Texas, right?  That probably means your posting during your lunch-hour.  I've got a question for you (or anyone that knows).  How can we search Atheist Nexus?  Several times I've tried that box on the right that's labeled "Search Atheist Nexus:" but I get results from everywhere except Atheist Nexus.

I often want to post something on Nexus, but with my bad memory, I can't remember if I've already posted it here or somewhere else.

 

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