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I just wanted to make a fun discussion and see what all of you are doing on Memorial Day.Anyone attending a parade?Anyone honoring vets?Here is an event in Austin that looks very interesting to me.Austin, TXClose Assault 1944 is living history and…Continue
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Comment by Tony Carroll on November 27, 2012 at 6:51pm Kalliope, that is my favorite Monty Python song. I have it on my MP3, and listen whenever I feel a little down. I plan on a natural burial, you know, just a shroud and put me directly in the hole. I have let my son and family know I want this played. Will probably piss some off, but I think it is a wonderful sendoff, even though I won't be there, or anywhere, for that matter. But will let them have a smile instead of a cry.
Comment by Joan Denoo on November 27, 2012 at 3:13pm Signing off to clean my oven.
Comment by Joan Denoo on November 27, 2012 at 3:12pm Melinda, thanks for your kind words and assurances that I hadn't intruded. There are so many tools one can use that we should have learned in our families and education, but I didn't learn many of them until I responded the best way I could to pain and disappointment. I agree, this is a lovely group of people, wise and funny and bold.
Love you and each one.
Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on November 27, 2012 at 12:41pm Thanks for all of your wonderful sharing and support of one another. Yes, why do cats love boxes? Perhaps because there are so few things in their human environments that they can control. Boxes tend to be light and cat sized, as well as resembling a nest.
No fair, GrinningCat. Now I have that Grand Old Cat tune as an earworm.
I was missing yesterday because I'm working on another pullquote/slideshow. But this time I'm more ambitious and will buy Vegas Video to add sound and allow people to control it. It's a learning curve to figure out how to properly credit the pictures. I collected a bunch without getting all of the information I need, and now have to hunt for their sources or replace them.
From The Meaning of Life, an oldie, but I still enjoy it.
Comment by Joan Denoo on November 27, 2012 at 11:29am Chris, that film is a KEEPER! Just a great lively tune, and lyrics worthy of memorizing. Let's have a sing-along. You are brilliant!
Comment by booklover on November 27, 2012 at 9:02am Spud,that big cat looks really comfortable up there!
Good ideas Chris!
Wonderful pictures, esp. the kingfisher and the minnow - you can almost see what the minnow thought...
I have a way to cure myself of depressing ideas, perhaps some of you can use it: first think of the worst time in your life, then say to yourself: ´If I survived thát, today must be easy enough.´
And if that doesn't help, you can sing
Comment by Idaho Spud on November 27, 2012 at 8:33am Booklover, the cat in the tree is so very interesting and made me smile as well. It took me a while to figure-out how it was positioned. I guess he's got his front legs resting on the branches.
I'm constantly amazed and amused at the strange places and positions cats get into.
Comment by booklover on November 27, 2012 at 7:51am
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