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Comment by booklover on November 27, 2012 at 9:02am Spud,that big cat looks really comfortable up there!
Good ideas Chris!
Wonderful pictures, esp. the kingfisher and the minnow - you can almost see what the minnow thought...
I have a way to cure myself of depressing ideas, perhaps some of you can use it: first think of the worst time in your life, then say to yourself: ´If I survived thát, today must be easy enough.´
And if that doesn't help, you can sing
Comment by Idaho Spud on November 27, 2012 at 8:33am Booklover, the cat in the tree is so very interesting and made me smile as well. It took me a while to figure-out how it was positioned. I guess he's got his front legs resting on the branches.
I'm constantly amazed and amused at the strange places and positions cats get into.
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Comment by booklover on November 27, 2012 at 7:48am First of all Ian, Great cat-walking pic. That's about how you can walk a cat! lol. I'm sorry for what you have to go through Ian, and what you've gone through. You're right, it's always worse when it's your child/children. Why do they say 'atypical' in front of your diagnosis?
Grinning Cat, Love that song. Of course I sang it too! :)
Tony, that is a very good song to have stuck in one's head. I hate sad music, but that song is uplifting!
Steph, you are just so kind and good. You make everyone on here happy.
And Joan, I didn't think you implied anything! I LOVE your advice and wisdom! Keep it coming! I tell my family about all of you and the great things you all say, and the nice things you all say, etc. I love what you said about being an old Mother Bear and hibernating! That is what I am aiming for!
This IS a great forum, and I come here first thing in the a.m. too! Thanks SO MUCH Ruth for starting it!
Joan, thank you for the compliments, and I want to be like you. You are such a neat woman!
I find my cat pictures on Facebook. I just love them too. Animals are so good for our outlook on life I feel. They live so simply and don't worry. Plus, they're adorable! lol.
Have a great rest-of-the-week my friends. And we are all friends here. That is for sure. ~ Melinda
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Comment by Joan Denoo on November 26, 2012 at 11:13pm Tony, what a wonderful tune to get caught in my head. Thanks.
Melinda, you do all the right things to stay healthy and feel comfortable. I didn't mean to imply you are not. I'm rather enjoying the old lady I am becoming and even liking my anger as a good thing. There is a lot to be angry about. And, the really good news is there are some things I am doing, can do, will do but not right now. I love hibernating. I feel like an old bear mother, past her child rearing time and just lolling all about. My kids even poke their noses in every once in a while to see if I am OK and then they go about their business as need be. I've got these wonderful flabs that hang down between my elbow and shoulder and if they get any bigger, I shall be able to fly!
You are a great Mom, and you have wonderful kids. Great things to celebrate! And it seems your husband is a kind and gentle man ... what more can we desire?
I love this group so much and feel very comfortable with everyone. I come here to relax and enjoy and even to quiet down after a busy day of writing and doing whatever needs doing. How you find all these fun and funny cat photos is beyond me!. Please do keep sending them. I have grown accustomed to their frolics.
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Comment by Tony Carroll on November 26, 2012 at 10:48pm You know, sometimes you get a song stuck in your head. Been singing this one off and on all day, so I decided to share it. Don't know why it just popped into my head, but it did.
'The Hills Are Alive' from The Sound of Music. Hope you guys enjoy.
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