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Comment by Paula T. on October 14, 2012 at 12:08am Chris, I have a problem with using the Chrome browser. I can post a reply (as I am now), but cannot reply to another member's post within threads. I am able to reply to those while using IE, but I really hate IE. I hope someone else who has more tech knowledge may be able to offer another answer.
Good morning! My pc gets stuck every time I visit AN - some reli influence perhaps? It's almost impossible to put up a message; are there more people with the same problem here? And how can I fix it?
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Comment by booklover on October 13, 2012 at 8:29pm I'm in the same position Paula. I have 3 classes to get an AA degree, but then I'd have to go on, and we already have 2 kids in college. I don't know if I have it in me to go back. Here they have cut librarians, and teachers, etc. essentially careers I'd want. I can't do math to save my life, so none of the careers that pay are something I would even attempt to take the classes for. I think I may just want a 'job' and learn whatever I want to like I've always done on my own. I do wish I'd at least have finished my AA degree though just for closure. We will see!!!
I hope you get the job!!!!!
Comment by Paula T. on October 13, 2012 at 8:05pm Thanks, booklover! I was at home while my sons were young and any work I did was around their school and sports schedules.
I sort of fell into the decision to become a librarian and am still looking for a full time position - hopefully one I had a phone interview for which is in the same academic library I work in now *fingers crossed* I hate the thought of paying back student loans for the rest of my life, but I knew I didn't want to file papers/answers phones or ask "paper or plastic" for the rest of my life! Hopefully, you can find something you love to do and can make some $$!!
Comment by booklover on October 13, 2012 at 8:05pm Paula, no I haven't, but I plan on it as soon as I'm done with Pillars. I just read "Fall of Giants", and I'm waiting for my husband to finish "Winter World", and then we have to wait for the last book in this trilogy to come out. They are his latest books. I highly recommend at least the first one I read! Always excited to discover a new author I like!~ Melinda
Comment by Paula T. on October 13, 2012 at 8:02pm booklover, I read The Pillars of the Earth...it's a great book! I watched the mini-series a couple of years ago and it was watch-worthy, but there were some major changes to the story. Have you read the sequel to Pillars?
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