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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

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Seth Andrews' Rebuttal to "10 Women Christian Men Shouldn't Marry" (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Grinning Cat on Thursday. 13 Replies

It seems as though some numb-nuts New York pastor by the name of Stephen Kim has written two marriage advice pieces for christian men and women.  Not surprisingly, his suggestions come straight out of his never-fail magic book.  Seth Andrews of The…Continue

Tags: advice, marriage, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews, Stephen Kim

Living in the Answers

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia Jan 18. 13 Replies

I am weary of those who declare they understand all the answers to the creation of the universe and Earth. They claim they know the answers to the questions of life, meaning, death, and the afterlife. Those with all the answer speak with confidence,…Continue

Tags: confidence, education, government, family, afterlife

Twin terrorists caught

Started by Patricia. Last reply by Patricia Jan 11. 7 Replies

Canada: twin terrorists caught before going to Mideast Saturday, January 10, 2015 By Martin Barillas L-R: Carlos and Ashton Larmond The Royal Canadian Mounted Police arrested and charged a pair of 24-year-old identical twin brothers on…Continue

Betty Bowers Best of 2014

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Jan 4. 33 Replies

Happy New Year, everyone!  Now that we're off on another 365-day stint of sniping at believers, leave it to America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers, to sum up the year past from her holier-than-EVERYBODY point of view! Have You had YOUR Betty today?!?Continue

Tags: 2014, America's Best Christian, Betty Bowers

Christmas: Behind the Curtain (The Thinking Atheist)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by booklover Dec 28, 2014. 23 Replies

Well, it's that time of year again.  Time to gird our loins, put on our battle armor and join the (dah-dah DAAAAAH!) WAR AGAINST CHRISTMAS!!! [groan!] Yeah, most of us have heard that crap before, probably too many times, in fact, how atheists are…Continue

Tags: Christmas, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller Dec 24, 2014. 11 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

Tags: steal, borrow, copycat, The Thinking Atheist, Seth Andrews

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Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 8, 2012 at 10:08am

That's corny.  I love it.  lol

Comment by Derek Bly on September 8, 2012 at 10:01am

"Her name was Lula,

She was a show girl."

C'mon, everyone, sing along with me now! You know the tune.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 8, 2012 at 9:50am

Lula is adorable!  Great photo.

Comment by booklover on September 8, 2012 at 9:33am

Not a funny pic, buy this is my Lula! :)

Comment by booklover on September 8, 2012 at 9:31am

Ruth, love the group-hug at the bottom of your post. :)

Patrica, that GIF is hysterical!

Steph, I agree with Tony, I love parfaits! :)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 8, 2012 at 9:20am

Wow.  Blast from the past.  I loved watching Jeff Smith (and his cute assistant Craig) on PBS.  I was a big fan in the '80s.  I only have his first cookbook, The Frugal Gourmet.  Some great recipes.  Too bad he got caught up in a tainted scandal.  He had a great personality.

I would LOVE your recipe...send away!!  

Once again, you just crack me up.  (pot in the orange juice.)  LOL

I can just imagine what you're like at a party! 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 8:13am

I heard THAT!  Cranberry juice is the only fruit juice I can tolerate, but I sometimes add orange juice to the pot when I make cranberry sauce. (Maybe I should add some pot to the orange juice...)

I have also thought of cranberry sorbet with an orange swirl, I just wish I could get B&J or Baskin Robbins interested.... 

Do you want the recipe that I have?  It's in one of the late Jeff Smith"s cookbooks (The Frugal Gourmet Cooks American)

Comment by The Flying Atheist on September 8, 2012 at 7:35am

Mmmmmm   Cranberry sorbet.  That would be wonderful.  I'm never without cranberry juice in the fridge.  Love the taste. 

Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 1:32am

Steph and Tony, I don't have any parffait in the fridge, but I have some die-VOON passionfruit punch sherbet in the freezer. Better hurry, though, I only bought it yesterday, and the carton is already half empty.

PS: I have been trying for years to get some commercial company to make cranberry sorbet or sherbet for the winter holidays, and they keep ignoring me.  I have a recipe, but no Donvier machine....  But doesn't it sound perfect for the usual turkey (or ham) feast?

Comment by sk8eycat on September 8, 2012 at 1:16am

@Idaho Spud: About the 100 lb bag of manure...It was very much a physical sensation when I suddenly realized the whole book had to be fiction. 

I was trying to find the answers to personal problems (I'd been told to "take my troubles to Jesus"), and had been struggling for more than 10 years with my inability to believe as whole-heartedly as the other people in my church seemed to, so I read the whole book, from beginning to end.  By the time I got halfway through Revelation, I was thinking, "This guy is tripping on acid!"  (I had NO idea at the time that diseased rye and other "recreational drugs" were widely available in the whole Mediterranean for centuries. I read about that much later in Colleen McCullough's "Masters of Rome" series.)

Anyroad, I thought back over other "miracle" stories, Jonah and the whale, the flood, Jesus raising an already decomposed man from the dead...I looked at the book in my hand and said out loud, "This is CRAP!"  I was appalled at myself for an instant, but I did feel as if I'd shed a heavy burden I'd been dragging around for years (I was in my mid 20s at the time). 

I had always felt that there was something wrong with me, that my problems (alcoholic father that I loved, for one thing) were my fault because I didn't believe enough, or something ....

I have always been fascinated with science, even though I lack the education, but at the time I was going through all this, all sorts of amazing scientific discoveries were making headlines, and I ate them up like mad.  They proved beyond a doubt that Genesis was just plain silly, and Darwin was right...I'd been struggling to keep my mouth shut about that in Sunday school for years. (I never did have a problem knowing that our ancestors were related to apes...I thought it was exciting.)

I wanted to know why "god" didn't tell "his chosen people" the truth about their origins, or about the shape of our planet and solar system, etc..  Woulda saved a lot of trouble.

Once I realized that the buybull was nothing but myths and lies, I stopped worrying about it, and got on with my real life. (My Dad went into rehab and sobered up, too.)  And nobody EVER asked me why I wasn't going to church any more.

I'm babbling...sorry.  It just is a long story because it took me so many years to get my head straight, and that final "This is CRAP!" was a surprising bolt out of the blue.

 

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