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Comment by booklover on August 4, 2012 at 8:44pm

I am TIRED of keeping my mouth shut about my non-beliefs, while religious people talk about theirs like it's true and everyone agrees with them.  I do have friends who know I'm an Atheist, and I do have Atheist friends and family.  I'm just getting much more vocal about it.  I can't stand it anymore. (Although I wouldn't if I thought it would put me in a dangerous situation.)

Comment by booklover on August 4, 2012 at 7:44pm

sk8eycat, you're awesome! :)  I'm so glad you have Jerry!  Our youngest cat is 3 and Just this year decided she's a lap-cat!  I love it.  Our oldest cat is a crabby-pants, but our middle cat let's me hold her until I fall asleep.  I LOVE animals! 

Comment by Patricia on August 4, 2012 at 4:16pm

I never drove so not having a car with all the extras doesn't mean much. My husband lost his license after his stroke in 1993 affected his eyesight, so we just walked or bused everywhere. Now I have a mobility scooter to get around with. Medical even paid for it. 

Comment by sk8eycat on August 4, 2012 at 4:14pm

Oh, Melinda, don't do that to your mouth! It will damage your teeth. He's a self-righteous son of a something (I will NOT insult female dogs!), and not worth it.  I just wish the people in the stadium would boo and laugh at him.  Show-off.

The real thing that's p*ssing me off about quitting driving is that I really haven't saved all that much money.  Okay, no taxes, no gasoline, no insurance, no mantenance, BUT the price of food and meds keeps going up.

And when I quit driving last year I didn't have any cats...now I have two.  Good brands of litter are damned expensive; I won't use the clay crap...or even the crystals.  I get the brands that are biodegradable. (Wheat or Corn leavings...wonder what the disaster in the midwest is going to do to those products!)I am glad I adopted the old kitteh-men, though. Jerry is becoming a real comfort...just recently he's started sleeping in my arms, and that helps me go to sleep.  He's so soft!

Comment by booklover on August 4, 2012 at 3:38pm

sk8eycat, sorry about your car!  Thanks for posting the post from The Happy Heretic!  It was really good.  Yeah, Tim Tebow and his Tebowing makes me throw-up a little in my mouth every time I see it/him. blah.~ Melinda

Comment by sk8eycat on August 4, 2012 at 2:38pm

The "god did it" sounds too much like "god did it for ME."  It's very close to the theme of the last column Judy Hayes wrote titled, "I'm So blessed."  The kind of stupid things people say when they pass a test or something.  Yeah.  I'm blessed, and you're NOT.  Arrogant.

http://s129542369.onlinehome.us/thh/2012/05/31/im-so-blessed/

"God loves me and helped me win a gold-plated medal, and he lets 7 million children die of hunger and disease every year."

One of the things that opened my eyes 50 years ago was how self-centered Christians sounded to me when I stopped going to church regularly.  I cringed, and hoped I didn't do too much of that kind of god-talk when I was caught up in it.

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When I was in Holiday, I used to see some of the European skaters quickly cross themselves just before the curtains opened for the opening number. I wodered if they were hoping it would help them skate well, or just protect them from falling on their a##es and looking stupid.

Comment by Ian Mason on August 4, 2012 at 1:31pm

Never really thought about it before reading posts here, this sport and God connection. Danish competitors have won a handfull of medals in rowing at the Olympics and have been interviewed for what seems like hours and all the talk is of "hard work" "deserved" "believed in ourselves" "believed we could" "a little bit of luck" and the like. The nearest there's been to religion has been a picture of two people praying (on others behalf) before an event. I can't imagine what it would be like hearing "God did it" so often.

Comment by The Flying Atheist on August 4, 2012 at 12:01pm

Sk8eycat, my little Toyota Corolla permanently went kaput eleven years ago and I never bothered to replace it.  I can't begin to imagine the amount of money I've saved by not having to pay for gas, insurance, municipal fees, and maintenance for ten-plus years.   

Comment by sk8eycat on August 4, 2012 at 11:27am

(Personal) News Item: I finally sold my old (and only) car to a wrecker yesterday.  I feel kinda like I had to have a pet euthanized....

BRB when I get used to it.

Felaine

Comment by sk8eycat on August 4, 2012 at 11:06am

I don't think their imaginary friend is much of a sports fan.  She/he/it would rather watch sparrows fall.

 

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