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Comment by Plinius on July 3, 2012 at 1:02am

Sk8eycat, I'm sorry about your loss. I find that the people we lose stay with us, in the sense that we look at the world partly in the ways they taught us. And we even continue the dialogues we had with them, because we knew them so well. So let go and cherish her memory.

Comment by sk8eycat on July 2, 2012 at 10:34pm

Judith started writing her Happy Heretic columns on the net around 1994.  She wanted to help "fence-sitters," people who didn't know anybody else who had lost their faith, and felt that maybe they were wrong...or the only person in the world who was having doubts. She used humor and sarcasm to point out how ridiculous (and nasty) the buybull really is, and she had a section with links to other web sites for non-belevers. (There weren't all that many back then.)  I didn't find her web site until I first went on the net at a friend's house in 2000, I loved her writing, wrote my first "fan email," (that doesn't sound right...) and I guess I made her laugh, because she wrote back.  When I finally got my own (used) Gateway in 2001, we just kept writing to each other....and then there were occasional phone calls when we'd just forget about religious/atheist issues andjust do "girl-talk"...cooking, men, pets.

I need to get in touch with some of her other long-time friends...her webmaster did have access to her computer & address book, but I don't know if he still does.  The Sheriff's dept. may have grabbed it.

There are a lot of other Heretic fans all over the world who are feeling lost and bewildered right now.  There are still things I want to talk to her about...and I can't  8>/

Everyone here is helping, though, and I thank you all very much.

Comment by Joe Meyer on July 2, 2012 at 9:15pm

Sorry to hear about your friend, Judith,  sk8eycat.

Comment by sk8eycat on July 2, 2012 at 7:11pm

James, I don't want to scratch a believer.  I like to keep my nails clean.

Comment by James M. Martin on July 2, 2012 at 5:54pm

sk8eycat, I just learned from Hitchens's first chapter that his mother was a suicide and that one of my favorite atheist issues, death and dying, and in particular the concept of consciousness, actually was a concern of Lucretius.  Atheists say death is not to be feared because one was not conscious before birth, nor will they be conscious afterward.  I forget how Lucretius put it, but here is that delightful old Epicurean's devotion to a friend, words I want to be of use to you now: "But still your merit, and as I hope, the joy/ Of our sweet friendship, urge me to any toil."  When a friend of mine passes, I also think of Donne, who was both poetically and scientifically right (I am thinking of the implicate order of Bohm) when he likened a clod falling into the ocean as an injury to all one's country.  (As you know, it is silly to belabor Donne's Christianity.)

Comment by James M. Martin on July 2, 2012 at 5:41pm

I did not know Ms. Hayes but just went to her website and will be reading her books as soon as I finish Hitch 22.

Comment by James M. Martin on July 2, 2012 at 5:37pm

sk8eycat Scratch a believer and you get an agnostic.

Comment by James M. Martin on July 2, 2012 at 5:35pm

Bassetts stink -- literally -- and tend to have skin tumors in older age.  But they are the clowns of the dog species, that is for sure.  (Dalmatians are goofy too, but not quite so much.)

Comment by Patricia on July 2, 2012 at 12:59pm
Sad to hear this news sk8eycat.....I enjoyed reading her site very much.
Comment by sk8eycat on July 2, 2012 at 12:46pm

Thanks for Bob Dog, Steph.  I needed that!  I love Basset hounds...they're so silly.

Does anyone remember this "Bob Dog"?

Photo of Bob Dog

 

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