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Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 79 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Secular and Reclaimed Winter Holiday Songs

Started by Grinning Cat. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner yesterday. 37 Replies

This is an appropriate day of the year for this subject...What are some of your favorite winter holiday songs?It would be especially good to share powerful new secular lyrics to tunes that have become associated with Christmas.…Continue

Tags: singing, lyrics, reclaimed, reclaiming, HumanLight

Aljam

Started by Randall Smith. Last reply by Joan Denoo yesterday. 3 Replies

I'm not a news hound by any stretch, but I do like to stay informed about what's going on in the world. (I despise "local" news with all the reports of murders, robberies, fires, etc.)The national "evening" news shows really irritate me. I hate…Continue

Seth Andrews - The Copycats: How Christianity Steals The Best Ideas

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Loren Miller on Friday. 5 Replies

Many of us have observed or learned how christianity shamelessly borrows from other sources to bolster its position and show off its supposed wonderfulness.  Well, Seth Andrews of The Thinking Atheist podcast has compiled some of the more modern-day…Continue

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Attacks in Canada Oct. 22nd/14

Started by Patricia. Last reply by The Flying Atheist on Thursday. 4 Replies

This was devastating for us........…Continue

Granddaughters

Started by Donald R Barbera. Last reply by Donald R Barbera Nov 15. 6 Replies

I've got three grandsons and I love them to death, but my youngest son and his wife had a baby girl in January and I haven't  right since. Granddaughter has me wrapped up like my grandsons never did. What is it about granddaughters? Her name is…Continue

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Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 26, 2012 at 10:24pm

Sara, I think most people go through religious marriage ceremonies because they haven't rebelled against customary expectations. Questioning religion takes a lot of gut wrenching self-questioning, unless you were raised atheist. Not everyone has the wherewithal, emotionally, to do that at the age of youth or young adulthood. Some people don't get around to the deep questions until much later in life, many never get there. It's easier to just live up to the expectations pushed upon you.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 26, 2012 at 8:17pm

A fake you say? Please post that information in the discussion Surreal I haz it. I wondered about the dark nebula cloud objects in that position.

Comment by sk8eycat on May 26, 2012 at 3:30pm

I dunno which group to hunt up the "Solar Eclipse from Space" image that was posted somewhere in AN yesterday, but...Snopes says it's a fake; a beautiful work of art that started circulating oon the net in 2009:

http://www.snopes.com/photos/space/solareclipse.asp

Drat!

Comment by Steph S. on May 26, 2012 at 2:21pm
Happy Memorial Day weekend! Be safe!
Comment by Sarah on May 26, 2012 at 1:20pm

But, yes, I will rock my reading and revel in my friends' happiness. And I will behave. ;)

Comment by Sarah on May 26, 2012 at 1:19pm

It just kills me, Ruth, because I know these people don't really believe it all. So why do they pretend?

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on May 26, 2012 at 11:26am

I've attended religious weddings too. I just put up with the clap trap for the sake of a friend. Enjoy the rest!

Comment by Sarah on May 26, 2012 at 10:42am

Oy. I have to sit through a Catholic mass today. AND I have to read a Bible verse as part of the mass. Yikes. The good news is that there will be lots of free booze and food after. And my friend is happy to be marrying her guy. And I figured out a way to walk up to the podium that will not involve me bowing in front of the altar. But I do have to say that silly "The word of the lord" line.

Comment by Joe Meyer on May 25, 2012 at 7:46pm

Have a Great Memorial Day Holiday Weekend all.

Comment by Tammy S on May 25, 2012 at 5:35pm

Have a great Memorial Day weekend one and all!

 

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