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Picture yourself spending some time with congenial friends, sharing your lives and pictures from your cell phones." They're curious about that cool game, song, movie, camping trip, art show, or other event that fascinated you. You talk about all kinds of stuff, poetry, styles, personal achievements, relationships, and bad days. You can share your inner child, and laugh together. They sympathetically listen to your feelings about serious topics like politics or climate change, even when they don't agree.

Personal validation comes from paying attention to one another, giving more than you get. Everyone respects you and themselves, despite our amazing range of personal tastes and interests. They'll tell you they don't agree with an idea or behavior without implying you're a bad person or somehow deficient. It's an "I'm OK, You're OK" kind of fellowship, where nobody tries to make himself look better by picking on somebody else.

Nobody here is into mind games. A discussion started with a loaded guilt-throwing question will be deleted.

This group is not intended to compete with other groups on topics they cover but to "fill in the cracks." Whenever a discussion dwells at length on a topic for which there's an existing group, we urge you to provide members a link to that group to continue along their tangent.

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Discussion Forum

Surreal, I haz it

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner May 6. 82 Replies

Surreal, not just found in art.Continue

Tags: surreal

Let's not define ourselves or others by our worst behaviors

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner. Last reply by Dominique Lutz Apr 16. 6 Replies

My take on the recent melt down at Hang With Friends, of which I missed part, is that some of us were tripped up by a habit of thought. It's something we learn growing up, and use without realizing how much pain it can generate -  failing to…Continue

Tags: dispute at Hang With Friends

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Idaho Spud Mar 29. 3 Replies

The FLDS Cult Is Unraveling"the internet is a lifeline for people trapped in the most restrictive and stifling forms of…Continue

Tags: Warren Jeff, internet, FLDS

Ode to Yahweh (Non Stamp Collector & 43alley)

Started by Loren Miller. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 24. 1 Reply

Ages ago (five or six years, I guess it is) when I first started recognizing my own atheism, one of the first atheist YouTubers I ran onto was Non Stamp Collector.  His handiwork wasn't up to Disney's standards, nor even Hanna-Barbera, but his wit…Continue

Tags: Yahweh, YouTube, 43alley, Non Stamp Collector

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 15. 3 Replies

Oregon Field Guide - Lamprey Decline"Populations of Eel-like lamprey have suddenly plummeted since the year 2000 in the Columbia Basin, surprising…Continue

Richard Dawkins, Growing Up in the Universe

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 14. 2 Replies

Here is an oldie, the young Richard Dawkins teaching kids about the universe. I especially like the one demonstrating how the eye evolved. This should answer those who believe it was impossible to evolve an eye. Continue

Tags: universe, teaching, Dawkins, Richard

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Comment by Loren Miller 1 hour ago

CARL!!!  Great to hear from you, bro!  Hope all's well!

I may know the thickener stuff you're talking about.  My stepdaughter's little guy uses it because he as swallowing issues.  It's called Simply Thick, and there's the website for it.  Hope it helps.

Comment by Randall Smith 2 hours ago

Carl, reading your comment has made my day! I'm relieved and happy to hear you're doing so well. Sounds like you're on the road to recovery. What do you do while on dialysis? Read? You might enjoy Alexander McCall Smith's books. They're light and fun reading. (Strangely, they're catalogued under McCall.)

Ruth, ditto on the other comments. Take your time to return.

Comment by Idaho Spud 3 hours ago

Ruth, take care of yourself and husband.

Carl, I'm glad to hear your good news.

Comment by Plinius 7 hours ago

Good news, I'm happy to hear it!

It's a long road, Carl, but it's wonderful that you do so well and that you're happy about it!

What a heavy job you have, Ruth! Don't apologise, just take care of yourself. We'll see you whenever you've got the time.

I'm not looking forward to a new knee, and my doctor doesn't want to make haste. First I get injections, and I can walk a bit easier now. It doesn't feel quite right - I mean that I still feel so young while my body is creaky. But I'll get used to it.

I'm very happy that our two patients are using less of our time - we need a bit of leisure. Aunt is happily retreating into Alzheimer's and when I phone brother-in-law that we can't visit him, he says:"Oh good, then I have a day off!"  I like honesty, but the Asperger sort of honesty is often a bit too much for me.

Comment by Joan Denoo 8 hours ago

My gracious, my computer did it again, repeat what I had written. It seems I have a gremlin making duplicates of my posts. 

Carl! Wonderful to read your post! I am so very relieved and happy to learn of your excellent progress. You are a marvel! It is just a matter of time and you will be able to have a life again. 

I share your concern about Ruth and her husband. Surely, their life will get back to normal after his surgery and Ruth's challenges end. She is one strong lady and up to the many tasks facing them. 

Some in the group have faced life-threatening situations recently. The good news, we seem to be a hearty lot. Overcoming problems appear to happen for us as we ride the roller-coaster of life. 

Warm hugs to you, Carl and Ruth. 

Comment by sk8eycat 9 hours ago

I don't know if this will help, but there is a product that will thicken water    or any other liquid...it might soothe your throat a little.  Ask your doctor; I've forgotten what it's called.

I used to take care of an older woman who had myasthenia gravis, and had trouble swallowing water and juice, and this stuff helped keep her hydrated.

Mabel...in her heyday before she retired from show biz and became a coach:

Knowing her was an honor.

Comment by The Flying Atheist 9 hours ago

Thank you, Sk8eycat.  Hugs back to you!

A funny thing happens to me every time I finish dialysis.  My voice gets rough and raspy for several hours.  Perhaps removing liquids from my body via dialysis dries out my throat.  A nurse told me that he's only heard of that happening to one other patient that he knows.  Oh well, that's just like me to be the odd minority.  Dialysis has removed an excess 30-pounds of bloated fluid weight from by body.  I'm now back to my normal size and weight.   

Comment by sk8eycat 10 hours ago

I understand completely,  One of my cousins was on dialysis for 4 years, and they had to drive from Winslow to Flagstaff....(My cousin Alice had a small boy to take care of, too.  I think my aunt did a lot of that work for her.)

PLUS my computer "doctor" goes in at 3:30 AM 3 days a week for his treatments, and goes straight home and pretty much sleeps till the next day. 

It's time consuming and exhausting, from what I've heard, but it DOES work!

Hugs {{{{{CARL}}}}}

Comment by The Flying Atheist 10 hours ago

Hey Everybody.  Greetings to all of you. 

I'm sorry for being so absent from here.  I can't believe how time-consuming not working can be.  Dialysis three times a week takes a lot of time.  The treatment, after being hooked up to the machine, is 3-1/2 hours alone.  It takes about 15 minutes to set up and then another 15 minutes to unhook afterward.  That's four hours total.  Then add 30 minutes to drive there and 30 minutes to drive home.  It's almost as long as working a part-time job! 

I have to say, I'm feeling REALLY great......and I haven't even had my kidney transplant yet.  I already feel like a new man.  I had a recent follow-up appointment with my cardiologist, the first seeing him since my heart surgery in March.  He is extremely pleased with my progress and my healing.  He wishes all his patients did so well, he said.  I couldn't be more pleased myself.  He explained to me that apparently initial tests didn't show just how sick I was.  I feel very lucky to have such a positive outcome.  Between kidney failure, a heart attack, a mild stroke, lungs filled with fluid, and a enlarged heart with a faulty valve, I could have "exited the building" just like Elvis at any time.      

I'm also doing daily exercising to strengthen my legs.  They are still quite weak due to my kidney disease.  That really won't change much until after my transplant, but I'm trying to keep myself from failing further.  I am still very unsteady on my feet and I have a problem with balance.  Around the house I'm OK, but when I go for walks outside I use a cane.  It helps me from falling. 

Chris and Randy, thank you for the messages for thinking about me.  As I read through all the posts here, it seems as if everyone is doing well.....except for Ruth.

Ruth, I'm sorry to hear about all the problems your husband is experiencing and how that affects you.  I'm thinking about you!

Comment by Joan Denoo 14 hours ago

Ruth, I was going to write you a note to see how things are progressing and found your update. I am so sorry your husband has had such a hard time with his knee replacement, Clostridium difficile, and C-Pap. Your fatigue and "feeling stupid" don't help him or you. Simple things become more complicated, such as turning off the car. I did that, too. 

Of course, you do not have leisure time or excess energy. Don't worry about Hang with Friends, We will pitch in and solve problems until you are ready to resume your excellent leadership. 

Peaceful thoughts, filled with calm images

Ruth, I was going to write you a note to see how things are progressing and found your update. I am so sorry your husband has had such a hard time with his knee replacement, Clostridium difficile, and C-Pap. The fatigue and "feeling stupid" don't help him or you. Simple things become more complicated, such as turning off the car. I did that, too. 

Of course, you do not have leisure time or excess energy. Don't worry about Hang with Friends, We will pitch in and solve problems until you are ready to resume your excellent leadership. 

Peaceful thoughts, filled with calm images

 

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