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Comment by Richard ∑wald on April 10, 2012 at 3:48pm

"today's Fresh Air story"

I heard this too (my car is NPR -24/7), brief critique: crock o' shit.

Comment by Natalie A Sera on April 10, 2012 at 3:10pm

I once had an experience at a jujitsu class where the instructor darkened the room and put on a subliminal tape. I literally went under -- my arms and legs started to gyrate without any conscious control on my part, and I fell into a golden place of ineffable joy. It was so beautiful that when the instructor stopped the tape and flashed on the lights, I started to bawl out of control, and it lasted for about half an hour. Needless to say, everyone else in the room was shocked, and tried to comfort me, but I couldn't stop crying.

I can see where people who have that kind of experience could think it was supernatural, and some of the people in the room tried to convince me it was a death-like experience (I won't know about that until I die), but I see no reason that it couldn't have come from brain chemicals crossing synapses in just the right way to create the experience. I think spirituality is what people make of it -- I'm SURE that some people would have interpreted it as a message from god, or the experience of nirvana or some such, but I'm pretty sure it was a physical phenomenon. I've never been able to recreate it, and it WAS beautiful, but I just think my brain simply happened to be stimulated in the right way to cause it. I DO wish I could do it again! :-)

Comment by sk8eycat on April 10, 2012 at 2:58pm

Similar sensations:

1. When I was a teen at Sunday evening candlelight services; lots of quiet music, low lights, silent prayers.  I did feel something, thought it was god, but I never "heard" any words.

2. Age 19 - took a course in hypnotism as part of a PR deal when I was on the road with HOI.  The teacher gave the class a post-hypnotic suggestion that we would do the best show we ever had that night, and feel wonderful.  I did (I don't know about the others), and I also realized that I was having the same "uplifting" feelings that I used to have at those Sunday evening services.

3. 2 years ago - having an MRI of my neck...same "floating" feeling after a while.  (Much better than a drink or two!)

We still don't know a great deal about how the brain works, but I have read that meditation/prayer and experiments with magnetic fields can create the same bio-chemical effect...or electro-chemical.  I don't know which.  (I'm not the brightest bulb on the tree.)

And when I'm in that twilight place between sleeping and waking, I sometimes hear my mother quietly say my name.  Mom died in 1993.

I know my own miind created those "experiences."  Except maybe the MRI.

Comment by Ruth Anthony-Gardner on April 10, 2012 at 2:16pm

Thanks for the post, Simone. It's an interesting study, albeit biased toward theism. Human beings have very flexible minds. I was always fascinated by accounts of how we failed to distinguish inner voices from outer (real) voices before widespread print literacy. For example Michael Foucault's describes how we once organized reality very differently in The Archaeology of Knowledge. Most people don't realize that reality as we perceive it is largely organized culturally at a deep level prior to perception. As I see it, our collective grasp of reason and subjective vs objective is more fragile than "common sense" admits.

Comment by Patricia on April 10, 2012 at 1:07pm

Smacks of self-hypnosis Simone....not to mention really disgusting to me. I'll worship my cats....hahahaha.

Comment by Simone Rosa on April 10, 2012 at 12:03am

Talk about an imaginary invisible friend!  I almost ran off the road when I heard today's Fresh Air story - http://www.npr.org/2012/03/26/149394987/when-god-talks-back-to-the-...

 

Comment by Pamela on April 8, 2012 at 10:12am

Happy Zombie Jesus Day to you too Chris.  Careful now....he wants your brain!!!

Comment by Chris Dodds on April 8, 2012 at 9:19am

HAPPY ZOMBIE JESUS DAY! 

Comment by Patricia on April 7, 2012 at 7:55pm

Thanks, Steph S. Exactly 8 months apart to the day & my husband is taking it very hard, as of course we all are.

Comment by Steph S. on April 7, 2012 at 6:49pm
Condolences Patricia. My thoughts are with you.
 

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