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Whoa! National Catholic Reporter Praises Obama’s LGBT Nondiscrimination Order

President Obama took a huge step earlier this month when he signed an executive order barring anti-LGBT discrimination in workplaces that receive federal contracts. In response, the National Catholic Reporter took a surprising stance:
Obama's exemption was especially contentious among faith groups because it did not expand religious exemptions (though he did respect a Bush-era executive order allowing religious groups "some leeway" in hiring and firing on religious grounds). That's why it's so refreshing that in a staff editorial, NCR praised the executive order loudly and proudly, a far cry from the expected (and observed) Catholic response.

Ask Richard: Atheist with Terminal Cancer Faces Several Decisions

Dear Richard,Two days ago, I was diagnosed with brain cancer for the 3rd time in 14 years. To make a long story short, my cancer has evolved from a grade II Astrocytoma, to the most aggressive form, grade IV Glioblastoma Multiforme. Glioblastoma is incurable and I probably won't survive past 15 months.My family is Lutheran and very conservative. Both of my parents disapprove of gay people, atheists, and non-Christians, so telling them I'm atheist on top of my recent diagnosis, and eldest sister's recent death will absolutely crush them. Now that the rest of my family has been told of my fate, the 'I will pray for you' s and the constant church visits are non-stop. My parents are trying to push herbal treatments on me now and they are trying to get me into the Burzynski Clinic, which is a gigantic scam towards cancer patients. They are also trying to plan a trip to someplace like Hawaii, but I don't exactly want that. My also atheist brother is trying to help me with everything, but he is scared that he will probably tip off my parents about us.I need help with a lot of things:. Should I or should I not tell them about my atheism? . Should I start college this fall? . How should I ask for a non-church, non-Lutheran funeral? . Should I tell the rest of my family? . Should I accept treatment (survival without treatment is 3-4 months) . How am I supposed to die with grace?The last one is most important to me. I don't want to die with medicines constantly being shoved into my mouth and trips all around the world. I just want to spend time with my family like I normally would: Sitting together around a dinner table, making each other laugh and making google eyes at my brother while we're supposed to be at church.Thank you for everything, The Cancer Chick
Dear Cancer Chick,

Appeals Court Rejects American Atheists’ Lawsuit Against Giant Cross Display in 9/11 Museum

More than a year ago, U.S. District Judge Deborah Batts tossed out American Atheists' lawsuit against the National September 11 Memorial & Museum and its display of a 17-foot-tall steel beam cross.
If you need some background, AA had sued because they felt the museum was supposed to honor the victims of the tragedy -- and we all know atheists, non-Christians, and Christians died in the tragedy.

A Quiverfull Mother Rejected Her Faith, Got a Divorce, and Wrote All About It in a Book That’s Free on Kindle Today

Kaleesha Williams used to be fully invested in the quiverfull movement. A mother of seven children, she home-schooled her kids, taught them Young Earth Creationism -- you get the idea.Two years ago, she left the faith, divorced her husband, and began a new life as a Humanist.How on earth did that happen?You can read about her journey in a new book called Free to Be: How I Went From Unhappily Married Conservative Bible Believer to Happily Divorced Atheistic Humanist in One Year and Several Complicated Steps. Today only, that book is free on Kindle:

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Comment by Natalie A Sera on February 20, 2012 at 8:01pm

Oh, another example: people condemn the "Abrahamic" faiths because of the damage that Christians and Muslims have done to the other peoples of the world. Well, Judaism is an Abrahamic faith, but Jews were decidedly NOT involved in the persecutions, murders, inquisitions or forced conversion, except as victiims. An example is that, in the entire history of slavery in the US, there exactly 3, count 'em THREE Jewish slaveholders. There were a significant number of Jews in the country at the time, but the majority didn't go in for slavery. The word "Abrahamic religion" paints with too broad a brush.

Comment by Natalie A Sera on February 20, 2012 at 7:56pm

I need to talk about something that is bothering me, and I finally figured out that this might be the best place, because I've been reading Hemant's blog for quite a while, and he is truly the most "Positive Atheist" I've seen.

I've been appalled by the extreme hostility I've seen expressed, mostly toward Christians, but also toward Muslims and Jews, based on a limited, rigid, hide-bound reading of their scriptures. The authors of this nastiness don't distinguish between Islamists and Muslims, Christianists and Christians, nor Judaists and Jews. They view religious scriptures as if these ancient documents which were written in their own cultural context, and in the metaphors and language of their own time, are the literal codex of how modern practitioners of these faiths think and behave. I thought only Fundies did that!

I am going to concentrate on the antisemitism I've witnessed, because I'm most knowledgeable about Judaism, having been born into that ethnic group and having been fairly well educated in its history as well as modern Reform Jewish beliefs.

There have been a number of offensive things pushed HARD by several members of AN. One is that the early Jews were genocidal (and by implication, that they still are). They ignore the fact that there were LOTS of tribes in that land at that time, and they were ALL duking it out, and when history was written by the winners, it tended to be exaggerated. Jews were no more genocidal than anyone else in the area at the time, and there are different reasons for why those tribes are no longer with us, the primary one being Christian and Muslim forced conversion. And Jews are not genocidal at this time, either. Yes, there IS a war going on in the middle east, but it is 2-sided, which these authors conveniently ignore. For example, one of them made an analogy to the immigrants who came to the US and took Native American land. But the difference is that it is well proven archaeologically, linguistically and genetically that the Jews originated in that land, and it was not THEIR fault that they were driven out or killed by the Romans, and those who were left were ALSO subject to the pressure of Islamic forced conversion. Even so, there was always a small Jewish presence in the land.

Another offensive argument is that Judaism is merely a religion, and to be scorned along with the rest of them. Well, I and many other born Jews do not believe in the god of the Jewish writings, but that does not make us any less Jews. Our community regards us as Jews, and we regard ourselves as Jews. Hemant was born into the Jain community of India -- I'm sure he still has connections with it, if only to enjoy the food and music and dancing, while still not believing in their religious ideas. But the authors of the extremist posts do not want to grant to Jews the same right that they grant to other ethnicities. It's OK to go to a Japanese Obon dance while not believing in Amaterasu Omikami; it's OK to celebrate Las Posadas while not believing in Jesus, but it's NOT OK to celebrate the New Year of the Trees (Tu b'Shvat) because it's a Jewish, and therefore "religious" holiday?

The antisemitism that I've seen expressed (those are only the 2 examples that come to mind at the moment), makes me not want to be here -- I had hoped that the AN would be a community that I could feel like a part of, but I just don't see it that way. Please tell me I'm wrong!

Comment by Marc Draco on February 20, 2012 at 6:56pm
Yeah, thought the same myself.
Comment by Susan Stanko on February 20, 2012 at 4:45pm

He probably got banned for spamming various groups.

Comment by qıƃ ɟ ǝıɔɐɹʇ on February 20, 2012 at 4:43pm

I got an e-mail notifying me of a post by Chris Volkay on this page but I'm not able to see his post here and am unable to go the website he advertised in the post (which was replicated in the e-mail). I also cannot find him among our members. What gives?

Comment by Steph S. on February 12, 2012 at 10:31pm

I'll check out your website Chris. Thanks for the link.

Comment by Lary9 on September 29, 2011 at 10:23am
What does the word "respect" mean to you? That's where differences in approach may arise. Also, sometimes "making a point" involves silence and the highest possible civility. Respectfulness itself is often a stronger 'point' than anything else. It often speaks more loudly about its owner's positions than any dialogue possibly could.
We're dealing with deeper things here than just logic alone. Just look at the respectful civil disobedience of Martin Luther King, Jr.
Comment by AtheistTech on September 28, 2011 at 11:23pm
I have a question: If you are respectful all the time, how do you make a point with someone you are respecting?
Comment by Tony Ryan on September 20, 2011 at 5:00am

Thanks Steph.

I'm just trying to promote critical thought!

Comment by Steph S. on September 16, 2011 at 9:47pm

Thanks for the link William.

I've been reading your coffeelovingskeptic site Tony -- good stuff.

Hope you all have a nice weekend.

 

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