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Men at risk of Prostate Cancer could in future be identified by Gene Tests

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Ex Nature Genetics... Genetic tests could identify men having up to 100 genes that together can raise their risk of prostate cancer sixfold. One per cent of men carry a combination of the genes that…Continue

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Comment by Patricia on September 22, 2013 at 10:23pm

Mouth/nasal sores are no fun, especially with dentures. The bone pain was another nuisance. Chemo has all kinds of side effects to ''ruin your day'', but ya do what ya gotta do.....

Comment by booklover on September 22, 2013 at 9:13pm

That's a good idea to set a timer Daniel.  It does sound like a big project!  I never knew all of the effects of chemo.  I had only heard of the nausea after and being tired.  That is a lot to go through!  Yes, you're fortunate to have the pills, but of course, obviously,everyone wishes you didn't have to!

Comment by Sentient Biped on September 22, 2013 at 9:07pm

Joan, your Taco Adventure means you are improving by leaps and bounds!   I think you will get energy back too. 

They don't talk much about the energy sapping effects.  The nausea, mouth sores, lack of taste, diarrhea, yes.  I suppose the energy issue sort of goes without saying.  I think it's a big deal.  

A lot of my life now revolves around this little box.  I have a timer set so I take them at the right time every day.  I have to get lab tests the day before refill, and have to arrange the refill for when I can take the afternoon to go to the pharmacy.  They use only the oncology pharmacy, I can't get it down the street.  Kind of a big project.  

Not complaining.  Just expressing the change.  I'm fortunate to have these life-saving little tidbits. 

Comment by booklover on September 20, 2013 at 9:53am

I'm glad you enjoyed the tacos too Joan.  Cary sounds like a wonderful son!  Fall is my favorite season also. :)

Comment by Idaho Spud on September 20, 2013 at 6:41am

Glad to hear about your great tasting taco treats Joan, and especially glad it stayed with you just fine.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 20, 2013 at 2:10am

Starved for flavor, yesterday I stopped at a mom and pop Mexican restaurant for a taco. OH! It was so good. Today I went back for a taco dinner with rice and beans! I ate the taco, divided the rice and beans into three portion, I later ate the first third and it was absolutely delicious and stayed with me just fine. I am on my way!

I ran across this article today, and I shall gently and slowly experiment with flavors. I am continuing to lose weight, and that is fine; I just don't want to put it back on. 

Boost Metabolism with Spicy Foods for Weight Loss

I had a discussion with my radiologist today and he said my stomach problems will most likely ease over the next month after stopping the four chemical cocktail, and my fatigue will probably continue until radiation and Herceptin (chemo) is completed. He said it is important to let my body heal from all the killed cells chemo and radiation produce and that rest works best. Well, I have lots of books to read as the weather cools and winter arrives. Spring should bring back my energy. 

Cary and I had a discussion this afternoon and we realize I may not be able to do the fall cleanup, my favorite season, and he will step in and take care of it if I am not able. 

It is cold, and I am going to have to get a hat!

Comment by booklover on September 17, 2013 at 8:04pm

Daniel, I don't know what to say except that I am thinking of you, and I care about how you are feeling.  I can understand what you are saying about working, that makes total sense.  It's scary to have to work, even when you feel you can't, in order to keep getting the care you need.  Our system sucks.

Vent all you need, people on here truly care about you. I wish I could give you a real hug, but here is a virtual one {{{{{{}}}}}}}. Love, Mindy

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 17, 2013 at 12:23pm
I am so very happy to be able to report that my stomach and digestive tract finally are settling down and food begins to look good. I think those strong chemicals begin to filter out of my body and a new normal hopefully will emerge. A nurse suggested Ensure, which I dislike, however Ensure Clear tastes good and gives me some electrolytes.

Thank you, Daniel, for the suggestions for teas and fragrances. Nothing worked for the last few weeks, and now I think they might. I normally like spiced orange teas.
Happily, you found something to ease nausea and that apple sauce helps with pills. My 12 morning pills do go down easier. Thanks for the idea.
I suspected you worked very hard on your acreage and feared exhaustion. Happily, you had a good, long, restful sleep. With winter coming on, you will have lots of time for reading. It's tough keeping up with current events when not feeling good.
I wish you could work shorter hours, yet I know you take great pride in your work and gain satisfaction from it. Caught on the horns of such a dilemma increases stress; hopefully you can set limits for yourself while you heal.
Thank you for venting and sharing your experiences. We all provide support and encouragement for each other and that makes the struggle so much more tolerable.
Our daily temperatures dropped below the 90 degree F mark and we now have very nice temperatures, lots of autumn thunder and showers, and thankfully, the Pend Oreille Fire Dist 8 has had no lightning fires so far. Human caused fires continue, sadly.
Thinking of you, Daniel, my cancer team members.
Comment by Sentient Biped on September 17, 2013 at 10:17am


I hate to think about you feeling ill.  Anxious for you to get better, which you will day by day.  Whatever ways there are to enjoy the moment, I wish for you.  If taste isn't working well, how is fragrance?  Lavender, Mint, Clove, Cinnamon all have some calming properties and might sooth without adverse gastric effects?  Guessing on that.  It's a learning process.

I have gone from lots of coffee daily to lots of tea.  Usually chai tea or spiced orange teas.  They seem to soothe, reduce nausea, and don't cause diarrhea - actually seem to reduce that symptom for me.  Also take my pills with apple sauce, which has a similar effect, while fruit juices nauseate and go right through me.

Last weekend i worked so hard on the 2 acres, I was completely exhausted.  Planted another tree, completed another raised bed, constructed a new roof for the chicken house.  Slept 12 hours afterwards, from afternoon to morning.  It was a very good exhaustion and took my mind off stuff.  But I regretted, a little, not doing some reading I like.

Sometimes after a day at work, I'm so exhausted and want to cry.  It's the unrelenting demand, and the corporate / workplace politics.  Entitled, privileged people scrambling for their supposed needs....  Then I take care of someone who really needs my efforts and expertise and empathy, and I can see they look and feel so much better, and I can cut through a little of the crap and make a difference and I feel so good about it. 

Can't imagine not working.  But sometimes so wish I could do so....  Before cancer I didn't think about quitting, now I do every day.  Also can't afford the treatments, scans, and obnoxious oncologist if I don't work. 

Just venting.  I'm fine.  Off today and planning to do some puttering as well as "homework".  Hope you are feeling a little better, day by day.

Comment by Joan Denoo on September 17, 2013 at 12:20am
"Men who drank six or more cups per day were 18 percent less likely to develop prostate cancer compared with non-drinkers, and were 60 percent less likely to develop metastatic/lethal prostate cancer.
"Worldwide, 70 percent of people diagnosed with diabetes and obesity have Non-alcoholic fatty liver disease (NAFLD), which is the major cause of fatty liver not caused by excessive alcohol consumption.
"Excessive consumption of fructose, which – unlike glucose – is processed in the liver and is linked to increased risk for NAFLD.
"(Both cane sugar and high-fructose corn syrup consist of one molecule each of glucose and fructose.)
"Almost one in three American adults have NAFLD, for which diet and exercise remain the only effective treatments. 

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