If you have cancer.

If you had cancer.

If you know someone with cancer.

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We won't pray.  We won't blame gods.  We won't give credit to gods.  

We face the diagnosis and know, it is what it is.  

To the extent that we can, we will define our own course.

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Cancer changes lives.

We have to deal with medical profession.

We have to deal with medications.

We have to deal with new discomfort and pain.

We have to create dignity, where there is indignity.

We have to deal with family members, friends, coworkers, and strangers, in a changed way.

We resolve to go forward with strength, resilience, purpose, pride, and integrity.

We define ourselves. Cancer does not define us.

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Comment by Sentient Biped on January 20, 2014 at 2:13pm
Thanks for all of the supportive words and thoughts.

This scan result was good. No new tumors. Nothing else to speak of. Next scan in 6 more months. Continue medication.

All things consedered, reassuring ang gives me more time to do with life, what is important to me.

Thanks again for the support. Means more than you know!
Comment by Plinius on January 20, 2014 at 1:34am

Waiting with you for the news, Daniel!

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 19, 2014 at 5:03pm

I'm thinking about you, looking forward to your report. Like learning you are in your garden. Enjoy each and every moment ... don't read any of my screeds on politics, economics and religion. You don't need to think about those current events. I will stay positive on other sites. 

Comment by Patricia on January 19, 2014 at 2:16pm

Thoughts are always with you Daniel.

Comment by Sentient Biped on January 19, 2014 at 1:26pm

Thanks for the positive words.  

Statistically there is reason for optimism.  

Did some transplanting, puttering, pruning today.  Not a bad way to spend the morning. 

I will post when the results come back.

Thanks again!

Comment by Dr. Terence Meaden on January 19, 2014 at 12:56pm

We all know how you feel, so here's hoping there will be a clean report for you. Terry

Comment by booklover on January 19, 2014 at 9:46am

Daniel, I will be thinking about you. 

Comment by Sentient Biped on January 19, 2014 at 9:09am

6 month CT scan was yesterday.  Report likely back tomorrow.  Keeping myself occupied.  It will be nice if it's clean.  When I have bad days, sometimes I think it wouldn't be bad if the cancer just does its thing.  That's not every day.  I try to keep my mind focused on "It is what it is".  The Zen attitude of not being too attached, including to life, but also to the idea of leaving life.   In a couple months it will be a year since "before cancer" became "with cancer".  So, it is what it is.  

Comment by booklover on January 11, 2014 at 11:46am

Joan, my son hasn't seen this guy since they were kids.  They have no contact at all.  The guy has TONS of friends on FB, and almost everyone posting to him is religious.  Although they are not baptist, he and his sister went to a baptist school.  I don't think the mom and I will ever see each other unless we bump into each other by accident again.  Their world is filled with people just like them, and I'm sure we are not even on their radar, which is fine.  I just look at the young man's FB page to see what's going on.  I certainly wish him all the best!  They are nice people.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 11, 2014 at 11:42am

Mindy, well, be prepared for the inevitable. You may get a call or a knock on your door, or a requests from your son for advice on what to do. Being prepared is the best strategy. Be ready to respond when doubts, questions, fear in the form of anger, appear in anyone.  

Daniel gave me a bit of good advice a week or so ago when I was dealing with neighbor children of my great-grandchildren; use Socratic questions. My little ones were hearing bible stories at christmas time and were full of questions. The one that stumped me was how many different species of crocodiles and allegators did Noah put on the arc? Daniel advised to ask them; it worked. My great-grandchildren decided Noah couldn't put them all on. 

So easy! Thanks Daniel!

I think, when it comes right down to how to live a healthy, happy, and productive life is to be as real as humanly possible. Get rid of all delusions, be honest with oneself and with others. 

Well, I could be wrong; show me. 


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