If you have cancer.

If you had cancer.

If you know someone with cancer.

If you want to talk about cancer.

We won't pray.  We won't blame gods.  We won't give credit to gods.  

We face the diagnosis and know, it is what it is.  

To the extent that we can, we will define our own course.

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Cancer changes lives.

We have to deal with medical profession.

We have to deal with medications.

We have to deal with new discomfort and pain.

We have to create dignity, where there is indignity.

We have to deal with family members, friends, coworkers, and strangers, in a changed way.

We resolve to go forward with strength, resilience, purpose, pride, and integrity.

We define ourselves. Cancer does not define us.

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Comment by Patricia on July 6, 2014 at 3:38pm

Yes Daniel, I found just what was not important to me anymore. If I spend/waste my precious time now on anything, it's because I choose to, not because I must.

I have the damn colitis which sends me to the bathroom up to 20 times a day or so, & sometimes not making it when I'm in flare, so oftentimes I don't have the time or energy to do much else. Planning my life around the nearest toilet is a real nuisance as well as humiliating at times.

Comment by Sentient Biped on July 6, 2014 at 3:07pm
One thing cancer has taught me is to be less perfectionist. A few typos dont matter when the next scan could show recurrence. Cancer tells me, if I could be dead in 6 months from this disease, my spelling is trivial. So is the laundry pile by the washing machine, and the weeds in the driveway cracks.

I cant copy and paste on ipad. The text is small and my eyes are bad. My fingers are fat and I have chronic diarrhea from intestional effects.
Im fatigued and working 70 hour weeks and still always behind.

Thats why I cant keep watching the damn cat when she is typing on the keypad. Like Patricia's cat, she's very sneaky.
Comment by Patricia on July 6, 2014 at 2:54pm

Sow wut? Wee lyk tuh ryt arr leddurrz wen nobuddeez uhrownd. Wee don't need no nozee hyoominz buttin intuh arr pryvit bizznuzz, an thuh hyoominz wont git uss arr own kumpyooturr, sow wee gawttuh doo wut wee gawttuh do.

Comment by booklover on July 6, 2014 at 2:20pm
Darn cats! Mine do that also Daniel. I think they also change my passwords. :)
Comment by Patricia on July 6, 2014 at 2:00pm

When I catch a mistake after posting, I highlight & copy, delete that post, & paste the copy into the typing window, correct it, then post again.

Comment by Sentient Biped on July 6, 2014 at 10:16am

I try to edit my posts but often miss typos.  Also, my cat keeps figuring out my password and logging on when I am not home.

Comment by Michael Penn on July 6, 2014 at 9:42am

We all have them. Mostly I get mine when there is no "edit" listed after I do a post.

Comment by Sentient Biped on July 6, 2014 at 9:04am

Michael, sorry for the many typos.  I have fat fingers not suited for the keypad on my tablet.  There are fewer typos when I use a keyboard.  For some reason, "s" and "a" get transposed a lot.

Comment by Michael Penn on July 6, 2014 at 8:39am

You are right, Daniel, but your cat is on the keyboard of your laptop again.

Comment by Sentient Biped on July 5, 2014 at 11:50pm
Joan, thsnks for bringing. up the caregiver side of the equation.

The responsibilities, and the pressures, truly can take a toll. The caregiver, what ever their role, is only humsn. And like all humans, flawed and vulnerable.

But. They have in their hands, the fates snd wrll being of others. It is their responsibility, their duty, to do the best they can. Equally, it is their duty to be caring to those around them, outside of the care setting.

I always try to remember, the people involved in my care are only human, and they are as varied as hunsns anywhere else. I try to thsnk them, to make it rewarding to them. Not all are nice people. Not all are able. But many are both.

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