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Cancer

Cancer changes lives.

We have to deal with medical profession.

We have to deal with medications.

We have to deal with new discomfort and pain.

We have to create dignity, where there is indignity.

We have to deal with family members, friends, coworkers, and strangers, in a changed way.

We resolve to go forward with strength, resilience, purpose, pride, and integrity.

We define ourselves. Cancer does not define us.

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Comment by Joan Denoo on July 4, 2014 at 8:30am

Trixie, I know the feeling. Overwhelmed just is not a big enough word for what one experiences after the diagnosis and before the treatments begin.

I had a huge meltdown after my diagnosis and before treatments started. Cancer Care Northwest has an exceptionally insightful therapist for us and in one hour, I had sorted out my fears, hopes, and anger and could carry on with a sense of purpose. This cancer thing is a war going inside your body. Your cells don't care if you are confused or afraid, the cancer cells just grow at their pleasure and the chemo and radiation fight them with all the energy of fighting a colossal battle. Feelings turn into fatigue. I slept away a big chunk of 2013.

Your cancer is far more complex than mine, so I don't know exactly what you experience. My children are grown and they were a great support for me. 

I suspect your husband is overwhelmed as well. He probably feels helpless, and too often, men turn helpless feelings into anger. 

I hope you have a good mental health professional helping you sort all this out. Doctors and nurses can give you data to support their options and help you make decision. However, they do not have the training nor experience to help you with your emotions. 

Just make sure that any therapist is not a believer in superhuman powers. That notion can take you into dead ends that just do not turn out well. 

I have a disabled son, 50 years old and dependent on me, who was one of my biggest worries. He took my diagnosis very badly. Tess, my therapist, even helped find ways to turn that around and he is now one of my strongest team members.

If you can somehow include your husband and son into part of your recovery team, they may not feel so helpless and the myriad of other feelings they have. 

We, here at Cancer, are one your team. We will help in any way virtual friends can. Don't hold back; this is the place to rant. We have strong shoulders and big hearts and care very much that you have the best mental health possible as you face your cancer devils.  

Comment by Dr. Terence Meaden on July 4, 2014 at 8:12am

Michael, excision is right---and the sooner the better. I have had areas of basal cell cancer (aka bcc 

or rodent ulcers) appearing on my face off and on for some 20 years. The last one was on my nose (see picture, August 2012). If left alone, it can spread and spread, and destroy the whole nose and then the nearest parts of the face. One London hospital has kept the skull of a sufferer from the 19th century who lost a big part of his face this way. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on July 4, 2014 at 7:36am

Trixie, very good news that no other cells were found. By all means, kick cancer's butt! Go after it with the big effort! Your family team members will do wonders in helping you get through it. Do keep us up to date as your energy allows. 

Comment by booklover on July 4, 2014 at 6:43am
Trixie, that is great news!!! I'm happy to hear that!
Comment by Michael Penn on July 4, 2014 at 3:17am

About 10 years ago I had a growth suddenly appear behind my left ear about the size of a walnut. Deciding to treat myself, I waited months before going to the doctor, going there because my treatments did not work. The doctor had disbelief in the growth appearing "suddenly" but I pointed out that you would know personally because you bath and wash your hair every day.

Since this was a big problem cosmeticly, the growth was excized and sent to the lab. It came back as Basil Cell cancer and the doctor explained that it does not spread. The question was whether he got it all or not. He then wanted me to go get burned with lasers, etc. by other doctors. I refused, saying we could just "wait and see." My family ws so scared that "I had cancer." I explained that it was minor and they had cut it off.

Today I am informed that excission is no longer used for this type of cancer. I wonder why? This would leave them treating it similar to how I treated myself before I went to the doctor. As you can see, I don't really trust doctors, but I believe excission is the best cure in these type cases.

Comment by Dr. Terence Meaden on July 4, 2014 at 2:45am

Trixie, I am so glad to hear your good news.

Comment by Patricia on July 4, 2014 at 1:29am

That sounds good Trixie!! Kick it with both feet, & tell it who the boss is!!

Comment by Trixie on July 4, 2014 at 12:53am

All scans, tests, ... blood work came back clear. NO distant metastasis found! Start chemo on July 10th. Lets kick this cancer's butt!

Comment by Sentient Biped on July 3, 2014 at 9:32pm
Trixie, just checking - how are you doing?
Comment by Sentient Biped on July 3, 2014 at 9:31pm
Julie-Anne, welcome to this group as well as to Nexus!
 

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