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If you have cancer.

If you had cancer.

If you know someone with cancer.

If you want to talk about cancer.

We won't pray.  We won't blame gods.  We won't give credit to gods.  

We face the diagnosis and know, it is what it is.  

To the extent that we can, we will define our own course.

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Cancer

Cancer changes lives.

We have to deal with medical profession.

We have to deal with medications.

We have to deal with new discomfort and pain.

We have to create dignity, where there is indignity.

We have to deal with family members, friends, coworkers, and strangers, in a changed way.

We resolve to go forward with strength, resilience, purpose, pride, and integrity.

We define ourselves. Cancer does not define us.

Discussion Forum

Participant Observer, loose bowel syndrome, unexpected and unprepared.

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Patricia on Tuesday. 25 Replies

I thought I had given my last participant observer report, but just so others who may go through the same protocol as I did, here is another report on the loose bowel syndrome. The lesson here is,…Continue

Participant observer, toe and finger nails update

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Apr 2. 4 Replies

Finally got all through the red-tape of health insurance referrals and saw a podiatrist this morning. A man in his late 60s, I would guess. Extremely thorough about checking my health history, and…Continue

CD47

Started by Ruth Anthony-Gardner Mar 31. 0 Replies

CD47The most promising cancer treatment to date will begin human trials in mid-2014.CD47 is a kind of protein that is found on the…Continue

Tags: antibody based cancer therapy, CD47

Partipant observer update: cancer treatment and toe and finger nails

Started by Joan Denoo. Last reply by Joan Denoo Mar 18. 4 Replies

My present pain is these damnable toe and finger nails, wanting to curl into my skin. I see the doctor today about my big toe. It is now infected and looks a little like this picture. The tips of my…Continue

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Comment by Patricia on January 19, 2014 at 2:16pm

Thoughts are always with you Daniel.

Comment by Sentient Biped on January 19, 2014 at 1:26pm

Thanks for the positive words.  

Statistically there is reason for optimism.  

Did some transplanting, puttering, pruning today.  Not a bad way to spend the morning. 

I will post when the results come back.

Thanks again!

Comment by Dr. Terence Meaden on January 19, 2014 at 12:56pm

We all know how you feel, so here's hoping there will be a clean report for you. Terry

Comment by booklover on January 19, 2014 at 9:46am

Daniel, I will be thinking about you. 

Comment by Sentient Biped on January 19, 2014 at 9:09am

6 month CT scan was yesterday.  Report likely back tomorrow.  Keeping myself occupied.  It will be nice if it's clean.  When I have bad days, sometimes I think it wouldn't be bad if the cancer just does its thing.  That's not every day.  I try to keep my mind focused on "It is what it is".  The Zen attitude of not being too attached, including to life, but also to the idea of leaving life.   In a couple months it will be a year since "before cancer" became "with cancer".  So, it is what it is.  

Comment by booklover on January 11, 2014 at 11:46am

Joan, my son hasn't seen this guy since they were kids.  They have no contact at all.  The guy has TONS of friends on FB, and almost everyone posting to him is religious.  Although they are not baptist, he and his sister went to a baptist school.  I don't think the mom and I will ever see each other unless we bump into each other by accident again.  Their world is filled with people just like them, and I'm sure we are not even on their radar, which is fine.  I just look at the young man's FB page to see what's going on.  I certainly wish him all the best!  They are nice people.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 11, 2014 at 11:42am

Mindy, well, be prepared for the inevitable. You may get a call or a knock on your door, or a requests from your son for advice on what to do. Being prepared is the best strategy. Be ready to respond when doubts, questions, fear in the form of anger, appear in anyone.  

Daniel gave me a bit of good advice a week or so ago when I was dealing with neighbor children of my great-grandchildren; use Socratic questions. My little ones were hearing bible stories at christmas time and were full of questions. The one that stumped me was how many different species of crocodiles and allegators did Noah put on the arc? Daniel advised to ask them; it worked. My great-grandchildren decided Noah couldn't put them all on. 

So easy! Thanks Daniel!

I think, when it comes right down to how to live a healthy, happy, and productive life is to be as real as humanly possible. Get rid of all delusions, be honest with oneself and with others. 

Well, I could be wrong; show me. 

Comment by booklover on January 11, 2014 at 9:38am

Actually Joan, he and my son lost touch long ago when they moved away!  I did run into his mom at Target, and we hugged and had a nice conversation, but we're not in their lives.  Truthfully I don't think I could spend any amount of time with someone so religious, nor would I want to.  And she seems so sweet and delicate, I think if she found out I was an Atheist she'd faint!

I love the way you talk about life Joan.  You make me want to do more in life, and not be in bad moods, because life is too short!

Daniel, I will have you in my thoughts and I hope to see good news posted on here after your next CT scan.

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 10, 2014 at 11:22pm

Mindy, if the young man begins to question whether faith and belief continue to be justified justified, given all the evidence that he will encounter that supports skepticism, you will be there to discuss the matter with him. Or your son will undoubtedly be a source of searching and seeking. That is where my hope lies. When the truth begins to knock on doubts, there are better ways of being alive. Trained to obey, not question, sacrifice oneself, follow as a sheep, gets very old very quickly as one matures. There are more enlightened and satisfying ways to think. 

Comment by Joan Denoo on January 10, 2014 at 10:56pm

Daniel, you are on my thoughts. I hope things improve. Each day holds so many opportunities to care and participate in life. The turning of the seasons offers a nice chance to hunker down, without extra chores beckoning one out of a comfy chair. Getting ready for another season of engaging with the elements of life enriches in very many ways. Warmer days, more daylight, the greening of the Earth all invite us to take on another season. 

I feel very encouraged that there are growing numbers of people who embrace the reality of being free of promises and threats of dogma of all kinds. We are becoming a nation of non-believers, with all that implies. The numbers joining A/N encourages me that we don't have to be silent about our thoughts. More people accept differences of gender orientation. 

There continue to be rapids to maneuver, and individually we become stronger. It feels so good to be able to be open and honest about who we are and not motivated by fear of damnation and hope of heaven, neither of which were ever real.

Take good care dear friend. Congratulations on the fine start of your new site, Food. It is taking off with very good participation.

 

 

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