Woman Right in Islam ?

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Permalink Reply by Sufian Ahmad on May 9, 2009 at 6:52am

[34] Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance): for Allah is Most High, Great (above you all).
This is it! Thats one of the things that annoy me more than anything, its simply putting down half of society's individuals and practically eliminating them. An easy way to control women, beat them if you need to...In modern standers, this should be a big shame but the continuing falling back of Islamic society will still allow for that. As a Muslim I am really sorry but there isn't much that I can do about it either...I always try to do something but anything short of awareness and education for every woman will not do it. Some serious feminist movement needs to raise awareness and liberate woman is the Islamic world, I'm sure that it will happen with time...

Permalink Reply by Sufian Ahmad on May 9, 2009 at 4:41pm

Yah, one more thing. The story of creation in Islam blamed women for "disappointing" act of Adam eating from the forbidden school, resulting in the exile of Adam. I don't know, in Arabic literature there a good portion about "Kayd al Nisa2" which is the wickedness of women....Just a thought, I'm not really sure if that kind of strucuralist thinking is really aplicable here, any ideas???? Just a thought, I'm not really sure if that kind of thinking is really applicable here, any ideas???? The Quran is literature after all, right?

Permalink Reply by dhea on May 9, 2009 at 10:28pm

Believe me since arab language is the only way to connect with their God, I'm speaking with my own experiences ( I guess GOD is arabic LOL ) before I became Atheist. So many people will read their Holly Qur'an without understanding the content. People are so afraid damned and rotten in hell that's why many of them wouldn't even dare to ask or questioning. They rather became follower whatever Imam preaching to them but I guess to control them as most religious doctrin. Just to scares them with hell etc and it's work. Woman in Islam more just an object or property rather than individual who has their own mind. Since the Qur'an supposed to be pure means never have any changes nor reformations and I believe they will keep it that way. Modern Islam in society more pick and choose the versus that convenience for them but that's not true Islam right ?

Permalink Reply by Sufian Ahmad on May 10, 2009 at 12:07pm

On a side notice, I'm sorry about the incoherence in my last comment, I was very sleepy when I wrote it :)
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Back to Islam, yes the Arabic language is a big part and thats why I think that it is Arab's job to reform Islam. The problem is that most Arabs got other issues to worry about now, there are some signs of moderation but still not enough. Change will come, I'm sure about that...

Permalink Reply by ali veli on July 21, 2009 at 3:42pm

sufian when you said "thats why I think that it is Arab's job to reform Islam" i was shocked but i was more than happy to hear that............. do you really think that could happen??? im asking this as a turkishman (ie non-arabic ex-muslim)...

Permalink Reply by ObscureAtheist on May 13, 2009 at 3:04am

when i was in university we had a course: "interpretation of quran" .everybody in class must interpret an Ayah from quran i choosed 34 nesa. most student in that class were female . when i read the Aiah and translated it to Persian i realized that most of them even didn't know about it. a few of them just wanted to justify Islam in some ways and the rest just laughed at it .(i think the only atheist in that class was me)
when the master(the mullah) wanted justify Islam and make vague the real meaning of ayah i threat him to mention another Ayah (234 bagharah) which says "women are men's farm and men can enter their farm in each direction that they want" after this threat he became silent and said nothing until end of the class.

Permalink Reply by ObscureAtheist on May 18, 2009 at 4:00pm

i completely agree

Permalink Reply by Riaz Ahmed Shah on May 19, 2009 at 2:11pm

The quran ,unfortunately is completely biased in favor of men.From verses pertaining to total sexual domination over women ,"Your women are tilth for you (to cultivate) so go to your tilth as ye will, and send (good deeds) before you for your souls, and fear Allah, and know that ye will (one day) meet Him." [Qur'an 2:223]
to verses pertaining to disciplining women with violence like chapter 4 (An-Nisa), verse 34:
“ Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great."

it is really sad how religion is just a cover for men to subjugate women .

Permalink Reply by dhea on May 20, 2009 at 1:11am

I'm pretty sure many women in Islam don't really know that much about the whole thing as I mentioned early at some of my comment since arabic the only main language in Islam. They all read and finished the whole holly Qur'an but yet didn't have any clue about the interpretation or even bother to read it. The main thing also Islam is religious for full submission and blind faith or you just kafir/infidel if you questioning or disagree about Islam. Many people try to justify as modern Islam ( the way of living by choose and pick versus in Qur'an that benefit or convenien for them without being stand out in society ) at the eyes of the true Islam follower those didn't really exist. Very sad because in reality if man in Islam truely follow it than Woman right in Islam didn't really exist right ? lol.

Permalink Reply by Sameer on June 23, 2010 at 2:50am

Islam treats women very bad. If you ask this to religious muslim women, they will say..Islam only gives protection to women..Islam only gives freedom. That is the biggest joke ever.
And as for that sentence -- " If the woman disobey her husband then he has the right to beat her up when is necessary." That onething is enough to know how great is Islam. Womens are not given freedom in Islam. Many of the religious muslim womens living caged life. I mean..like..how some animals are living inside cage. That same way....some muslim womens lives...staying in home only always...no enjoyment.Those strict mens control them. Now that is not any kind of love. Women and men..both should be free,no strict rules.
In saudi, if a women gets raped..she have to provide 4 men witnesses. Now tell me what the hell is that ? I dont know in how many muslim countries this rule is there. So 4 mens should see her getting raped ?? Does this makes any sense ? If she fails to provide witness, she will be given worst punishments. But mens enjoy.They can marry 4 womens.Ive read news in real news sites in online. Women given 100 lashes because she got raped.My goodness...poor womens. :( There is no one to save them. These are too much.They say Islam treats men and women equally. That is another big joke.

Permalink Reply by Noh Name on July 25, 2010 at 2:09am

I was raised xtian and have very little exposure to Islam. I had an encounter with Muslim women who were treated as prescribed by the Qur'an. They were in a meeting for women that had drug addictions. This girl's story was horrible. Her family brought her to the US to marry a man. They married and he became involved with drugs. He would beat on her if she did not use drugs too. When he got in trouble with the law her father and his family decided it was her fault that he became an addict. He divorced her using that as a excuse, she was pregnant. Her father took her back and made it clear that she was a burden and she was lucky they were not back home. Her and her mother were not to leave the house, use the phone, have any contact with anyone outside the family. She was having problems with drug withdrawals and her mother was brave enough to sneak out of the house to get help from a neighbor. The neighbor found the meeting and arranged for a cab.
I have never known two people so afraid. They acted like they were being watched by her father. The slightest noise would startle them. They were terrified that he would get home early and find them gone. We tried to talk them into letting us take them to a shelter. They were to frightened to try. When the meeting was over we learned that did not know where they lived. I couldn't fathom such a thing at the time.
They arrived in town at the airport was brought to the house and never allowed to leave. They were told if they would learn their address or use the phone they would be punished. We tried everything to figure out where they lived. But they did not know. We tried to convince them to stay they left any way. It was a not-so-good neighborhood and we were worried. We tried to find them but couldn't.
I often asked if anyone ever heard from them again but no one ever did.
I can't help but wonder about them all the time. I fear the worst has happened. And not by the people in the neighborhood either.
I know that it's not like that for all but if it just happens once it's one time to many.
I am not very familiar with the Qur'an but I know that the Bible I held onto for so long is actually not that far off when it comes to women. And yes the game is rigged.