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Comment by DocMike on October 13, 2009 at 2:46pm
I had a somewhat positive experience with on-line dating a few years ago. I say "somewhat" because we didn't wind up staying together, although that had more to do with where we were in our lives at the time.

Anyway, we met on the Scientific American singles site, so we already had that in common. We emailed for a few weeks and then started talking on the phone. There was an instant spark so, at some point, I decided to take a trip to NYC (I lived in Houston and she lived in Manhattan) so we could meet in person.

Well, we hit it off immediately and had a pretty nice long distance relationship for 6 or 8 months. I traveled there about every 2-3 weeks during that time and I think if I hadn't been recently divorced and going through some things with my (now grown) kids, things may have worked out better.

She was actually a lot better match for me than most everyone I've met in person before or since.
Comment by Jo Jerome on October 13, 2009 at 1:48pm
Yeah Jacqueline, that's the thought I cringe at: The 9 out of 10 rejections. No one likes being the rejected and I really, really don't want to be the one doing the rejecting. And while some things like Atheist/non-religious seem non-negotiable, I can see myself saying, "Oh I could never date someone who does X for a living..." then wind up falling madly for the person who does X. ;-)
Comment by Jo Jerome on October 13, 2009 at 1:26pm
I know what you mean sigrid. I'm pretty leery about the whole online dating thing myself. A group like this is a little different for me since I'm on A/N for other primary reasons ... the singles group is a side thing. But I don't see myself getting on an actual dating site anytime soon.
Comment by sigrid on October 13, 2009 at 8:38am
I have always found online dating to be incredibly superficial, have read about it at different blogs I found as a rule by rapidshare search engine or heard the experience of my friends. but I have rarely actually got to know someone online -by know someone, I mean know if I can trust them or not, know if I would like to spend several hours in their company, even just have a relatively clear idea about the facts of their life (age, profession, marital status). And then, the whole first date thing - you've been flirting with this person for two weeks, and you finally meet in a bar, and you realise that physically there is nothing there... It's a very awkward situation. still, if you never try you'll never know;)
Comment by Jo Jerome on October 10, 2009 at 5:25pm
Movies, museums, zoo, anything nature-y. Still don't know if I'm doing the long trip or the short one, but if it's the long version, I'd have time for a movie with a fellow atheist. ;-)
Comment by Jo Jerome on October 1, 2009 at 9:46pm
Visiting San Diego/LA in a few weeks. Anyone out there?
Comment by Andrew Bush on October 1, 2009 at 1:13am
Moving to LA in January. Looking for an atheist woman. Thanks!
Comment by Jo Jerome on September 19, 2009 at 9:00pm
@Aaron; I get off work at 4 tomorrow. If I can find a way to beam to New Zealand, I'll let you take me out for a birthday dinner. "Let you."
Comment by John Grow on September 17, 2009 at 10:54pm
For myself, I know that I don't go looking for someone who believes in god. No no nooo. They just seem to turn up. Maddeningly. In a dating situation that subject never comes up. Unless, mercifully, she tosses out some of the illness right there by saying things like "Jesus loves you," "what church do you go to," or "I just love that Glenn Beck." Then I know not to waste my time further.

Oh. And, I am single, 40, living in Tucson. I would love to meet a nice lady who is interesting, fun to talk to, someone I click with, and who will NOT drag me to her church of ask me if I've read Left Behind. Answer? No, but the title would make a great porno.
Comment by joinmeindeath89 on September 17, 2009 at 6:59pm
Hello, I live in Miami, and I have yet to meet an atheist girl here. I have met like 3 atheist, but they are male. I dated a Christian girl for a while but that was disastrously horrible. Well, she was a born again-tongue speaking-evolution denier kind of Christian who required me to go to church to be with her.

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