This seems to contradict your statement below:
I do not want to be single.
Are you ambivalent about it?
Yep! Same boat; here's a paddle. :)
Online dating is extremely... ... ... at least for me, there's small pickin's. But maybe you'd have better luck! :)
I've heard of some atheists forming groups at UU churches. Not sure how that works, really, but I guess if you're in a community that isn't big enough for an alliance or foundation to be established, it'd be a start...
Kelly, I'm a little puzzled. your statement:
I don't do bars and clubs since I'm not in my 20s anymore...I refuse to do online dating sites, so here I am
- makes it appear as if those are the only possible ways to meet people. Is there some reason you want to avoid any of the other alternatives?
I ask because your statement makes it sound like there's something else going on that you haven't mentioned.