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Permalink Reply by Steph S. on July 21, 2012 at 6:32pm

I wonder if they offer that on the dating service. It might be an option.

Permalink Reply by Steph S. on July 21, 2012 at 9:15pm

Sorry to hear they deleted your pic Damien.

Permalink Reply by Shannon Equality Barber on July 21, 2012 at 7:08pm

I joined. IDK if it's because of the fact that there aren't a lot of lesbians there or what, but I had no luck. Pay at your own risk.

Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 21, 2012 at 7:27pm

Yeah, you're looking for a minority of a minority.  Not good odds.  Given that most paid sites only allow you to communicate with other paid members (at least from what I've seen) you'll be dealing with such a tiny percentage of people in any given geographic area.  I'd definitely stick to a site like OK Cupid, if I was a gay guy or a lesbian.

Permalink Reply by Shannon Equality Barber on July 21, 2012 at 7:41pm

Actually, I found a gay dating community, called One Good Love, that has ridiculously detailed filters in every area from religion to kids. That's the route I am going.

Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 21, 2012 at 7:44pm

Hmm, is that one a free site or paid?

Permalink Reply by Shannon Equality Barber on July 21, 2012 at 7:46pm

Paid, but you can see your matches before you actually pay anything, and profiles,etc. And limited contact. I have a ridic # of matches, so I'm gonna join when I get paid on Tues.

I am finding that queer areas work better for dating, atheist areas work better for friends..

Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 21, 2012 at 8:04pm

Hmm.  And can you actually communicate with non-paid members?

That's one of the ways that Match.com gets you.  Their site is pure bullshit.  If you're a paid member, you can send messages to anyone.  But the people you send messages to can only read your messages if they're paid members.

Are you SURE you're able to communicate with non-paid members?  Otherwise, you're likely throwing your money down a hole, as most of your matches won't be able to communicate back.  Check up on this, before you pay.

Permalink Reply by Shannon Equality Barber on July 21, 2012 at 8:08pm

Thanks for the tip, that is something to think about...I got trapped outta $10 on pinkwink like that...

Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 21, 2012 at 9:00pm

Yup, lots of sites like that, which don't make the fine print obvious.

Permalink Reply by Jonathan Simeone on July 21, 2012 at 8:03pm

I looked at this site about a year ago and didn't find it worthwhile. I will say that the site is more expensive than you would think at roughly 13 dollars a month. Many features are not available until you pay the fee. I'm not sure about open relationships because I'm not interested in one and I only spent a few minutes on the site. It's possible that some of the stuff has changed since I was there but that was my experience there. 

Permalink Reply by Steph S. on July 21, 2012 at 9:14pm

Only 13$ a month Jonathan? I pay more than that monthly just for World of Warcraft.

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