My fiance and I are new atheists. We searched as much as we could to find the truth, only to find there is no truth, just science. We are somewhat the black sheep of the family's anyway which for the most part does not bother us. However what does bother us is that we have a granddaughter 4 and a grandson 1. We very much want to be a part of their lives, but how do we do the whole religious holidays thing? We thought of making their birthdays really special and treating that day like a Xmas, but that still leaves us with nothing to offer them on X mas. My step daughter and our granddaughter's other grandparents are Christians but never attend services. The grandsons father is a non practicing Muslim that honors Xmas. We feel left out as it is because we live 2 hours away from them and rarely get to see them. We really feel strongly about not wanting to add to the falseness of Xmas. Any ideas are greatly appreciated.