The Meaning of Life - What's Yours?
Sustainablity - Our Environment
Personal Happiness and Contentment - Is that the ultimate goal?
OK I have something that I'd like to get off my chest. I don't have a lot of real meaning in person adult friends at the moment - I've moved cities and haven't been out much - although that is changing - so being able to write on here - in a dear diary way - but get some feed back would be really great - as I don't get time to research my theories as much as I would like - and so some grounding from others always helps me not to get too far off reality.
I suppose it relates to meaning of life. What is your meaning of life?
I've worked a lot of getting rid of mythology and have been left with not much really - although I am quite liking the humanist perspective - or what I know of it - in terms of it's natural and science base.
I figure due to the heat death of the universe there isn't much point to life. Only that we are here and that is amazing in itself. But we aren't perfect - we only find ourselves here because in our current form we are well adapted to reproduce - but it isn't without flaws.
Death is something that many fear and I think it is a main driving forse of religious belief - behind the cultural and social benefits people gain from involvement. I think a good death is quite an amazing experience according to people who've come back from death to tell the tale - so now a days I'm not so scard of death - although who knows how I'll be at the time. I feel sad thinking about it - but then again I'm only 34 and hope to live until I'm at least 80 - so perhaps by the time I've had another 46 years I'll be in a very different head space about it all. Here's hoping anyhow. In fact I think a good way of dealing with death in general is to accept it's going to happen and know that it is quite amazing for a few minutes once you've died technically, until you're brain fades out. Of course there is nothing after that, so I'm not worried about that bit - it's the leaving that is really sad - leaving all your family and friends behind - my husband put it quite well when he said it's a bit like leaving a really great party before it's finished.
So once we've dealt with death - and meaning - ultimately there isn't any - what are we left with? We're left with what to do with our time?
Morals have come up quite a bit. I didn't used to like them much - but Sam Harris book changed that - and now I can see the value in morals in terms of it's wrong to cause children harm through sexually abuse or physical mutalation - through cutting off their clitorises. So on an extreme end of things I can see the value of moral values of right and wrong. I can see also that we have these values because we have empathy and don't like to see others hurt.
But can we stop all pain? Would it be good to stop all pain?
Pain is part of life - it is helpful in some ways - it would be nice if we didn't need to have it, but it has a value by way of keeping us alive.
I like nonviolent communication - not because I think we ought to be nonviolent in our communication, but because I think it is a useful tool in communicating with others about our feelings and needs, so as to get our needs met in a way that isn't harmful to others. I think this is a useful way of being.
We are lucky in our society generally that we don't have to make decisions about harming others. I'm not convised that total nonviolence would work. When thinking about the major religions in the world the ones that are most nonviolent are quite contained and small - although Hinduism has a lot of members. It's the violent ones that are prospering - christianity and islam. In fact Islam seems to have picked wars with all of them - Pakistain and India - Palastine and Israel - Islam and the West - I don't think they've attacked the Buddhists yet - perhaps there is something in that!
Christians seem good at fighting Islam currently and historically - I'm thinking of the crusaides.
Buddhists aren't agressive, but they don't seem to be growing either - in fact China has put quite a stop to their leadership also.
The other main issue I think is our sustainablity on planet earth. I don't think that waiting for technology to get us safely to another planet is the key to this. I think we'll be waiting a long time and in fact I think the human race will die out and take out most other species with it, before we work out how to get a group of humans safely to another habitable planet using science.
I think that the evolution of dealing with climate change will be gradual and we will slowly adapt to less food and less material things. Although I also think that much pain will come too and I think that we will have more people starving or getting sick due to malnurishment - the food quality is already going down - due to our farming practices - we relay on synthetic vitamins - which I'm skeptical about - and also fossil fuel based fertilisers - I'm not sure how sustainable they are either - and I believe that crops are reducing due to poor quality of soils. Although Israel and Australia are leading the way with using poor soils to grow food - due to their need based on poor soils. American on the other hand seems to have rich deep soils. India is running out of water in parts to successfully irrigate food.
Is it OK that humans clear the land to make food for themselves at the expense of so many other species? I heard that at least 5 species are lost every day mainly due to human food production. We haven't even found all the species in the world - there are just so many. Does it even matter, when the universe will die a heat death in the end any way? What's it all worth?
Perhaps it matters to our quality of life and our survival as a species. But you wouldn't know, when most people are more concerned about entertainment - once they've done their day's work to get their basic needs met. Switching their brains off in favour of someone elses imagined theatre on TV or you tube.
It seems perhaps that I missed the point here. Isn't life about enjoying yourself? Does it really matter about the planet and long term sustainability and saving other species or our own for that matter?
Perhaps it doesn't really matter what we do at all. Perhaps everyone should just life the life that makes them the most happy - and that is the best thing we can all do.
What are your thoughts?
Alysn - I really don't know if 'men' changed their view points after discussing things with me - I suppose it's not really a valid concept as such lumping all men together like that - I would say that we all have an influence on each other and that some of the men I've spoken to liked what I said and some didn't. It's a bit of a taboo subject - as it brings up things such as sexism, stereotyping and political correctness.
I think that it's useful to be able to sometimes just get something off your chest - in that it's not about truth, it's about expressing your frustrations in the way that they are coming up - and if it turns out to be false allegations - then perhaps you wouldn't have been able to identify them and change them if you hadn't spoken your mind to someone openly with the trust that they would want to help you find the truth of the matter, rather than feel the need to punish you for expressing an untruth.