"Men are, by a huge margin, the sex responsible for violent, sexual and other serious crime. The economic cost of this ‘masculine excess’ in delinquency is staggering - to say nothing of its emotional toll. Why is the social shaping of masculinity not an urgent policy issue?"
Don't give me the old bromide that testosterone did it! That is an excuse! A denial of self-responsibility! A claim that protects violent men from being held accountable. Both men and women suffer because of these brutes!
"Of the one-third of a million people in England and Wales found guilty of an indictable offence in the 12 months ending June 2012, 85% were men. The more violent the crime, the more men predominate. From a unique table deep in the quarterly Ministry of Justice Criminal Justice Statistics Bulletin for England and Wales we learn that males were 88% of those found guilty of violence against the person, and more than 98% of those committing sexual offences."
Just as the women of Turkey, dressed from head to toe in heavy gabardine in 100 degree F weather, to conceal their bodies because men couldn't control their impulses to rape, so, men of many countries continue to think they are entitled to use and abuse women. Doesn't that sound sophomoric to you? How can anyone claim they can't control their natural urges? If men were subject to such impulses, doesn't that imply those who can't exist as less human than the gentler ones? More like beasts than Homo sapiens.
A female child who doesn't learn how to be helpless, powerless, dependent, passive, submissive pays a heavy price. Of course females are more sensitive to social clues, they have to be if they want to be accepted by others in the tribe. Females also learn to not think for themselves, to ask permission and direction, to submit to authority. Usually, everyone around them, from infancy to death, is bigger and stronger than they.
It is by giving up wanting to please that a female can find her own voice and power. Some females are born with that independent spirit and it is encouraged. Some of us had it beaten out of us. The razor strap was the instrument of torture in my childhood.
The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir is about what happens to women through their lives.
She paints a terrible picture, a total robbery of selfhood from women. It isn't that bad anymore, but her book is distressingly, still relevant.
I used to go to lesbian-feminist events, and they were very conformist under the guise of "political correctness". I felt this culture reflected the upbringing of women to conform to social expectations. In a lesbian-feminist environment, there were equally demanding social expectations - just different ones. The leaders of the lesbian-feminist groups seemed to feel that women could be controlled. Since women get controlled from childhood. We're underlings.
This female conditioning is often reflected in feminist views.
Many men put down feminists. Part of that is just denial. But the dislike of feminists could also come from the conformist and shaming aspects of female conditioning, reflected in what the feminists say. The guys don't like having those female values applied to them.
So male criminality is (to some extent) the downside of the originality and selfhood that men are allowed to have.
I tend to be a loner. And part of the reason is to escape the attempts of others to control me.
"So male criminality is (to some extent) the downside of the originality and selfhood that men are allowed to have. "
That is a fascinating idea Luara. Many thinkers from the very libertarian / anarchy perspective make that point a lot but I've never seen it arrived at it from this direction.
By extension when women enjoy the same degrees of selfhood and originality we might expect that their criminality would increase. So in practice which would be better: more or less liberty? Or in other words, perhaps it would be instead be better than men give up those aspects that lead to criminality and emulate the feminine aspect. But that would also mean that if those things are objectively undesirable, women should give up wanting those things too right?
Most of the people in prisons come from bad, disadvantaged backgrounds - poverty or abuse. Their criminality was their response, their way of coping with life.
So I would say, help the people with bad backgrounds to cope in a better way than being criminals - that would be the answer rather than bringing them up in a traditionally female way.
Our prison system and our punitive ideas of justice are all messed up. Those people need help and education, but prison often just hardens people, embitters them and trains them to be better criminals.
Our punitive ideas of justice perhaps come from religion. The idea of transcendent will - that anyone can choose not to do the things they did, by making a choice outside of physical reality, justifies punishment. I don't see any other justification for punishing people.
Some people have to be confined to protect society. But they are probably better off and will behave better in the future if we try to help them and treat them as well as possible - rather than punishing them by allowing their lives to be miserable in prison.
"Most of the people in prisons come from bad, disadvantaged backgrounds - poverty or abuse."
Could it be that "people in prison come from bad, disadvantaged backgrounds - poverty or abuse" because there is a higher police presence in such neighborhoods, that they stand before a judge more often than people from "good", advantaged, wealthy, and abuse that occurs behind closed doors?
Could it also be that a majority of police and judges are conservative, law-and-order types? People who think that the way to correct criminal behavior is to impose harsh punishment? Maybe, too, they are less able than we free-thinkers to see the culture of the "other" (the dreadlocks, the grilles, the music, the language, the saggy pants, the glorifying of the "gangsta," etc.) as non-threatening? Objective reasoning isn't easy sometimes.
Does anyone doubt that poor neighborhoods are more dangerous?
Poor neighborhoods beget poor education which begets more violence......Very sad but true.......
Taking that first breath is a sin, so likely a crime too!
Patricia, when I was in China doing my research on women's lives in different cultures, I was allowed to visit a rural village. My transport was up a river on a barge carrying petroleum, machines, goats, and farm supplies. My "escort/interpreter" was a woman picked by the Chinese government for her trustworthiness for supporting the Chinese political line. One of my goals was to observe women's health care. We went into a rural hospital that was a Quonset hut. Male and female patients were in beds along the walls with a walkway down the middle. Families of patients were there with food, clean linens, and whatever was needed for treatment. They sat on benches beside the beds. As we walked the length of the ward, I saw needles sticking out of all parts of people's bodies and technicians tended them and turning the needles. One woman was having a baby and I stopped to talk to her through my interpreter. This was her first baby and she was very excited about the prospect of having a boy. She had been in labor for hours and the crowning event began, then the birth. The baby was a girl; the mother began to sob.
We have a large population here of the East Indian people who seem to be the same way, even though they claim to be Canadian. Pretty sad.