Oh boy it's great to finally be here with people who share the same thought: There is no friggin' God!!! (Sorry for putting it this way, but it's good to say it out loud)

 

I am new here and glad I found this place. I have been an atheist since I was about 15 years old. I used to be very religious, went to church during the day when I had time just to "talk" to god; I would pray at night and "tell" him about my feelings and dreams and I always felt his love and it was the greatest thing for me. I'm from Germany and grew up Protestant. I went through what we call "Konfirmation" when I was about 15 I think but when this took place I was already slowly turning into an atheist because the bible never made sense to me. Above all it just dawned on me that the belief in God is a psychological process that expresses the need of every human being - to be loved. After all, it feels nice to know (or think) that there's somebody out there watching you, caring for you. I have to admit that that was very hard for me to get rid of when I first became an atheist. To realize you're all alone...but in the end it has made me a better person because I know I am responsible for my own actions, there will be consequences if I do something bad...not a punishment from God however. I do good things because I want to and not because I hope to be rewarded by going to heaven. That is a selfish thought if you ask me. I realized that not believing in life after death makes your life much easier because you don't have to worry what will happen when you're dead. No, you won't burn in hell, you will just be gone. "I am not. I was not. I care not."

 

I do not have any atheist friends (believe it or not, I have not found another atheist in this country and I've been here for almost 3 years..)

 

Hope to meet some interesting people on here.

 

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Welcome..that was a beautiful introduction. It is tough to find a fellow atheist in "real life", I know. I have been "out" for about 10 years in Maryland and I still only have a handful of non-internet friends who are atheists. That's why this site and some others like it are so important. I'm still kind of new here myself, but so far I have enjoyed the site a great deal. Hope you do too.
Glad you found this site.  Yes, there are many more of ''them' out there in the real-world than there are of 'us'.  I'm sure you will like it here!~ Melinda
Hey! Glad you made it. It is hard to meet atheists in "real life". Most of us don't advertise it, for one reason or another.
Thanks for the warm welcome guys. What really gets me though is that I cannot be open about my non-religion ar work for example because that would change the way people see me...especially those who think that God is the answer for everything and that atheists should burn in you know where...

Does anybody have the same problem? I hate to think that we're a minority :-(

From a fellow heathen, welcome Tina.  A lot of us (not me personally) have a very serious problem about letting others know about their non-belief; especially here in the US.  Yes, we are in a minority, but I am convinced are numbers are growing every day.  Glad you're here.

 

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