Wow, contradiction much?
The saddest part is that it probably works.
Well, when that's the case, just wander out of your age bracket. Nothing wrong with dating someone 10 or 12 years older or younger than you ... or, like this one girl I have chasing me down who is 16 years younger than me.
It's weird, but if everyone involved with it is happy about the situation, I don't see how it's anyone else's business. It's legal, so they can go jump, as far as I'm concerned.
You worry too much. I haven’t actually done the research but I'm pretty sure that most people still dye from non-sexual related life complications.
As for pregnancy, find a guy with a vasectomy. I had one and I'm sure lots of other guys have also or talk to your doctor, there are available birth control substances that don’t take daily maintenance.
And if you brought it up I'm sure you could talk a guy into going to the dr for a checkup for sexual diseases if it was conditional on taking the relationship the next step. It may not find everything but it's better than nothing. Also you may want to discuss exclusivity on the outset rather than just assume.
Amen Bro! Wonder if they could throw a mental evaluation in there as well????
Why does everything have to be so damn complicated??? lol....