“I was not. I have been, I am not. I am so grateful to have participated in life!”
A beloved cousin died yesterday and we, at a Johnson/Smith/Denoo family get together had a discussion about what we want inscribed on our gravesite. I don't intend to have a gravesite, but will have a marker placed on my mother's grave. I want it to be clear that when I die, my mind, body and emotions change into a different form and return to the atoms from which I evolved.
Joan, will replacing the X below, maybe with star stuff, convey the idea?
From X I came and to X I have returned.
Right now I'm thinking of a high-tech gravestone that on different days replaces the X with pond scum, blue-green algae, or cyanobacteria.
Maybe flashing differently colored lights.
Oh! that would be eye-catching, Tom, and maybe some bells and penny whistles?
What are the correct words to use? Thanks for the comment.
Joan, my condolences to, on the loss of your cousin.
My plan is natural burial. In Washington state near the Columbia River Gorge is theWhite Eagle Memorial Preserve, a nature preserve cemetery where the departed are buried in a biodegradable shroud, without preservatives or toxic chemicals, and allowed to merge with the surrounding soil, meadow, ponderosa pine forest. I don't know if they have markers. If they do, I would like my favorite Robert Green Ingersoll "Happiness" quotation. Although the other saying on my profile page is also good: Traditional Mongolian saying, translated: "Lords hate those who say truth, dogs hate those who ride cattle." Pat has a better sense of humor than I do.
Carl and Patricia, noble and practical. I feel like I SHOULD do that, but the formaldehyde is not to my liking. Who knows, maybe I got my cancer from all of the formaldehyde I breathed in while dissecting people in medical school. Probably not - if that was the case, a lot more doctors would have this cancer -, but who knows?
Daniel, I like this concept. Thanks for the link. I also like your Robert Green Ingersoll "Happiness" quotation. I'm glad there are more options than the old fashioned pump them full of chemicals and make them look pretty in the casket option.
I'll leave no body and have no marker.
I'm still debating the merit of having my ashes scattered. That seems pointless, except the ashes have to go somewhere. I suppose I should consider where they might wind up if I'm not specific. Ehh...back to pointless.
I'm thinking I'll just have a list of GPS coordinates distributed to my friends. Nothing else, just the coordinates. If they choose, they can make use of those places I've enjoyed.
Well, perhaps our beginning is pointless, as is our ending. From where, to where?; or from what to what?
I like the coordinates idea.
I want inscribed in mines "died old ,godless, and horny!"XD
Sorry to hear about your cousin, Joan.
The cops killed my grandson in Magnolia, Texas 2 or 3 years ago and I donated my plot down there so he could be buried by his grandmother. I bought that plot in 1986 and don't think I will be buried there now.
In fact, I can be cremated and just have my ashes scattered. In case any remaining relatives don't want to scatter me, and they want to keep me in an urn, let it have this inscription. "If you ever need me just add water."
Michael...that was a very sincere gesture to offer your gravesite....I don't even have a gravesite and may just have my ashes put in an urn after all my organs are donated to help those in need....
Mike, I'm so sorry about your Grandson!