Just wondering.... more than 30,000 members. At most, I am guessing 20 or 30 or so post discussions or get involved in discussion. Not that I keep track.
That's the size of a mega-church. Sorry for the analogy. It's about the size of the town where I grew up. Also not a good analogy, that town was a sorry excuse for an over-sized septic tank. Let's just say it's a lot of people.
Anyway, I wonder what happens for the folks who sign on and don't post. I hope this site is useful for them. I suppose if 30,000 people were all posting and discussing it would be kind of overwhelming. Maybe page-views generate some funding for the site?
I also wonder about people who used to be very active, then.... poof! vanished! There are a bunch of them. Did they get bored? Found Jesus? Get busy and no longer had time? Found peace with being atheist, the need was met, move on?
Just speculating. I sometimes welcome new members hoping to inspire involvement, and others do a lot more of that than I do.
Spud, from my own relationship, he just isn't interested. His primary identification is with his Chinese family and origins, and he is online a lot staying connected there.
A better question is why does my interest sustain? I don't know. I really feel like people here are my friends, I've never had atheist friends or family, I am surrounded by religious people and religious comments every day, and this is really a stimulating environment for me.
Michael, I also cant tell you how to neuter your cat. And I'm no Einstein or Tyson. Although Tyson's face tattoo is interesting, and he seems to have turned around since quitting prize fighting.
Joan, those all sound valid to me. I'm horrified about the phone call you received. Truly horrified. For some of those issues, that is why I use a nom de internet. Because it would not be possible for me to speak freely here, while people are looking over my shoulder from my day to day and professional world.
Daniel, I have been called so many names since 1974, I should have kept track of them because they were really funny, looking back on them. At the time I cried. My former father-in-law told me I was a baaaaad woman and he bleated it as a sheep would bleat. My former mother-in-law cald me some name I can't even remember now, but I was devastated. My father told me I wasn't strong enough to take the beatings ... meaning he was disappointed in me. My mother hated me because I left and paid the price for leaving. She had divorced my father twice, married him three times. It wasn't until she read a copy of my master's thesis, Toward a Theory of Family Violence, that she understood what I was doing. My aunt told me to get out of her house because was telling the truth about my father's brutality direct3d toward my mother.
Others have called me names as I marched for feminist, or black, or gay causes. So what. Their name calling said more about them than about me. I have a photo on my wall of the whites screeching at blacks as they walked in the public schools with that bantam rooster of a governor being pushed aside by U.S. marshals.
My skin is so thick, it is like cowhide. I thought things through very carefully and know what is fair, just, and right for me without causing others harm. The wonderful people on this site challenge me when I think fallaciously, and give me ideas they support with reason and evidence.
When I was in my doctoral training at Gonzaga, my advisors and professors were mostly priests. I was writing my dissertation, A Splendid Heresy, in which I demonstrated how the church maintains and perpetuates violence against women, and keep women in a powerless, dependent, subordinate state. They harshly criticized my work. I wrote and re-wrote until I could get the language that would satisfy them, get me an "A" grade and I remained true to my notion that women have rights and responsibilities and men have no authority to pass judgement on me. I am pro-woman, pro-choice, anti-religion, and hold anti-domination/submission beliefs. I completed my training and received only "A"s in all my classes. When it came down to the degree, they refused to give me a doctoral degree because I did not vomit out their rhetoric. One of my priest-committee members told me I had come closest to changing his mind about contraception and abortion as anyone had. I asked my committee how they could deny their sexuality, wear dresses and refuse to give me my earned doctoral degree. No answer that made any sense was forthcoming.
I am grateful to the institution of the Roman Catholic church for not awarding me my earned degree because it provided just one piece of evidence that the institution of the RC church is closed minded, fail to meet the needs of modern women and men, and do not provide a viable alternative to a better way to live life.
Joan, you are one amazing person. I appreciate hearing more of your story.
Jerry, thanks for your kind words. Life hands you a lemon, make pickled lemons.
joan i love you! love all of you guys! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
theburningmonk, I hope to learn more of your story. I have a feeling you have a story that needs to be told. Thank you for your nice comment.
Joan, anyone who has the piss-poor judgment to call you a "bad woman" doesn't know shit from Shinola. As for the jackasses at Gonzaga who wanted to give their unqualified appraisal of your handiwork, it is more than obvious that they suffered from their own presuppositions, biases and indoctrinations, either childhood or adult. They were SCARED of you, the primary and possibly the dominant reason why they would not grant you a doctorate, scared because they hadn't the cojones to recognize the truth of your arguments and that you were the one on the rock and they were the ones on the sand.
Give it time. That sand is becoming QUICK, if you catch my meaning. It's happening even as we speak.
Loren, I agree, I am really optimistic about what is happening, not only within this group and between groups, but in the undercurrent of people getting ready to take thought and action. I am very encouraged.
I am also surprised that I still have buttons that get pushed. I really don't need to blow people away.
Thank you for your encouragement and support.
Sentient.....I agree with you, that is also why I do not use my real name.....I have heard so many horror stories of how people take advantage and steal identity etc that I prefer to remain anonymous.......Also it gives me the freedom to really open up about anything that may interest me in the forums and blogs.....I assumed when I joined not that long ago, that we,the Atheist Nexus members, would mainly be talking about Atheism.......To my surprise I found myself getting really involved in politics......Funny, when I was a child, I was told to always stay away from discussing Religion and Politics...however that is all I am discussing in here..LOL.......I am not complaining it is just some members have very different views on politics than me.......This results in some heated debates...though it can get me all riled up I do enjoy the interaction and hope anyone reading this will not take any personal offense from my diatribes.......As far as seeing more members, I was dumbfounded to hear we have so many and I also wonder why we only see maybe 30 or so......I have noticed a very large number of Views at the bottom of each forum and blog...So my guess is that most members will read what we have written but choose not to reply.....This is strictly a freedom of choice and we should respect that.......
I come here to learn, & enjoy reading many posts without responding. I am not well-educated & oftentimes don't know what to say, or how to say something, so don't say anything.
As for my husband.......he doesn't touch a computer.......ever! He'll ask me to ask a member something occasionally, or even relay something he wants you guys to know, but that's about it. He's the garden/greenhouse/model train person in the house, I'm the food preparer/preserver/computer user/photographer here. Hopefully by Friday I'll be learning to use the Ubuntu operating system so I can be officially out of Microsoft & Windows.
I have been wondering where everyone is the last several months as it seems so many of the 'regulars' haven't been around.
Patricia, you say you are "not well-eduated" and I experience you as a wise and thoughtful person. You have opinions and state them clearly. I don't have to wonder what you write because you write distinctly. Your food and recipes work for me and your graphic art delight me. I look forward to learning how you like Ubuntu and am very glad you are out of Microsoft and Windows.
Your husband is a jewel, with his beautifully designed garden and greenhouse.
Thanks Joan, I try.
I have grade 10, but I try to read a lot of subjects & feel I am continuing my 'education' in some ways.
I express much better with the typewritten word, but face to face doesn't work for me at all, so I prefer the online places & emails.