Living in a predominantly religious area and contemplating moving.

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Permalink Reply by Allena Weber on July 27, 2011 at 8:53am

I wish you the best of luck.i know w.v. is definately religious.

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Permalink Reply by roland707 on July 28, 2011 at 9:22am

You probably already know this but stay the hell away from Alabama.

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Permalink Reply by Starscream on July 31, 2011 at 11:22pm

I've heard Oregon and Washington State are 2 of the least religious states.  I think Seattle is considered one of the least religious cities in the country.  It's uber progressive there from what I can tell.  I have a friend that lives there, and it sounds great if you can handle the boring dreary weather.

 

Also consider that most northeast states even if they are high in religious affiliation are not nearly as closed minded as people from the south.  Stay away from anywhere with high percentages of baptist.  In the north, church is what you do on sunday morning.  In the south, wednesday services are very common in addition to sundays, as well as lots of social church functions.

 

Maybe you're asking your self the wrong question.  Cities in general are much more progressive and you'll find a lot more people you can relate too.  You might just want to move to Chicago. 

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Permalink Reply by Sentient Biped on July 31, 2011 at 11:38pm

I grew up in western Illinois (Quincy), spent 5 years in Urbana, moved around the country - a little in Louisiana, a little in San Antonio, Turkey (Army), a little in Rochester NY, then wound up in Lafayette Indiana foir 5 years.  I hated Indiana so much (or Indiana hated me) that when I had an opportunity in Corvallis Oregon, I packed up and moved without ever setting foot in the Northwest before.  I had only read books.  Except for 4 years in Chicago, I've lived in the Northwest for the remainder of the past 20 years, mostly in or near Portland.  I currently live in a suburb of Portland, Vancouver WA.

 

There was a culture shock for me - it's definitely not the Midwest, and people are different.  It's hard to say how, but they are. However, I love it here.  I don't think I could handle any where else now.  With many, many, many trips back to Illinois until my parents died, each time felt like going back to the scene of the crime.  The closer I got, the worse I felt.  PTSD I guess, but I found it hard to even converse with most people from my home town.

 

Portland Oregon is very nonreligious.  The suburbs are not as much so.  I think Seattle is also nonreligious.  They are both big cities of course.

 

It's best if you can visit whereever you might want to live.  Even then you don't know until you live there.

 

As for boring dreary weather, the ocean shores are incredibly beautiful, there are forests full of huge trees to hike in, the volcanoes are awsome, the wineries and breweries are great, and where I live it only snows about a week a year, if that much.  Summer is usually dry without a rain from about late May to September, but then it starts to drizzle and the days get short and gloomy, it's true.

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Permalink Reply by Loren MacDonald on August 3, 2011 at 11:19pm

having spent some time all over the u.s. including living around the chicago area, I throw my vote for California, especially Northern California...

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Permalink Reply by Mike Haynes on August 26, 2011 at 1:51pm

Linda and I spent a week in Portland, Oregon a few years ago. They seem a lot more progressive and laid back there.

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Permalink Reply by Sentient Biped on August 26, 2011 at 3:35pm

That's true. I've lived in a lot of places and pacific northwest is high on my list. You could do a lot worse.

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Permalink Reply by Grace Fitzpatrick on August 26, 2011 at 4:11pm

I've lived in Kansas, Florida, Texas, Mississippi, Arizona and West Virginia.  Of those states, I would say Arizona was the least religious, but I believe that has changed.  Of those remaining states, I think Kansas is the least religious.  It is less religious now than it was when I lived here before in the 80s.  Years of conservative government have made an impact and seem to have created a strong liberal undertone which I hope will prevail someday.  I don't know anyone whose happy with Sam Brownback right now.  His attempts to end abortion or make them seriously hard to get have failed and been met with opposition.

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Permalink Reply by Steph S. on August 26, 2011 at 4:52pm

Austin, TX is a very progressive city with a large IT/tech industry and many colleges and universities. Home of Atheist Community of Austin (ACA). Here are some links about Austin, TX.

http://www.atheist-community.org/

http://www.austin360.com/

http://www.austintexas.org/visitors/plan_your_trip/

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Permalink Reply by Atheist Andrea on August 26, 2011 at 7:28pm

I am from Southern N.H and it is a great place to live. I live in Nashua which was voted best city to live in the U.S in '97 and '98. Yesterday I saw a band shirt worn by a guy that said in huge letters, "Religion Sickens Me" (which is from a metal band). Even though I am not into that kind of music, I'll take any ant-religion I can. Our motto is Live Free or Die which we seem to live by better than most states. Good luck on your journey.

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Permalink Reply by Meddlesome on September 5, 2011 at 5:32am

Why limit yourself to the USA ?

There are plenty of other countries out there! UK / Canada / Australia / New Zealand usually have good immigration options, and they are culturally not tooo distant from the USA....

 

M.

 

 

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Permalink Reply by Meddlesome on September 5, 2011 at 10:17am

Errr... no. More "clash of cultures/religion" type stories that come out of the UK revolve around muslims, but apart from a few small trouble spots (which happen with any immigrant group), there is no massive 'problem'. Yes there is too much bending over backward (and forward!) but that is mostly due to religion in general getting too much privelege.

 

M.

 

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