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Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 2, 2011 at 11:06am

People who do what?  Run around calling everyone they don't like a fag?

Or people who look at someone's behavior and try to figure out what may be a contributing factor?

I do the latter.

Permalink Reply by Alice on July 2, 2011 at 6:47pm

In terms of causal links - who knows, we have so many causal links - perhaps the guy just liked to compare himself with others?  It could be as simple as that - you might think that's perverted - you're interested in psychology - he's interested in penis'. :)

Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 3, 2011 at 12:05pm

- you're interested in psychology - he's interested in penis'. :)

 

Heh, yes, which moves him a little more to the gay side, on the gay-straight sliding scale.  My point exactly.  :-P

Permalink Reply by Alice on July 3, 2011 at 6:11pm

I don't see that is a natural consequence - men and women can be interested in penis' and not be gay and men and women can be disinterested in penis' and be gay - so I don't see how being more interested in penis' would make you more gay - unless you showed me some states to the contrary. Personally I think it could be equally a straight or gay man that has an interest in penis' - especially his own.

Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 4, 2011 at 4:13pm

You're talking about the definition of the word gay.  Stats don't matter for that kind of thing.  I'm male, so I have more of a right to specify what makes for a straight or gay male.  I win.  :-P

Permalink Reply by Alice on July 2, 2011 at 6:30pm

LOL - sorry that came out wrong - I wasn't implying that being gay is rough - but being thought gay when you're not might be unsettling for a straight person?  Anyway I was thinking about accusing someone of being a paedophile - but like the guy said - I misread that bit anyway and he wasn't implying that at all - but was saying he was a pervert.

Permalink Reply by dr kellie on July 3, 2011 at 8:43am

Is it unsettling?  I can't imagine why.  I am assumed to be straight quite frequentlly, and it doesn't bother me.

Permalink Reply by Susan Stanko on July 3, 2011 at 11:45am

I guess because you never know who will try to harm you for "being gay"  I guess it would be unsettling.  That or it will cause actual gay people to hit on you.

Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 3, 2011 at 12:02pm

As long as I don't get rejected by women because they think I'm gay, I don't care what anyone thinks about my sexuality.

 

I already have plenty of gay guys hitting on me, so no worries there.

Permalink Reply by Sentient Biped on July 3, 2011 at 1:12pm

Joseph dont worry about it.  You may find that women consider it a challenge, wanting to 'convert you'.  I still get that at times and Im not even good looking.  It's wierd.

Permalink Reply by Joseph P on July 3, 2011 at 1:39pm

Heh, reminds me of the Bloodhound Gang song ... something to the effect of "I wish I was gay, so that I could get chicks."

Permalink Reply by Alice on July 3, 2011 at 6:07pm

I know quite a few men who are unsettled by the idea that someone thinks they are gay.  It's not something that has bothered me at all.  I suppose it could cause a problem with finding a partner if you were giving out the 'wrong' message - as you would attract the wrong sex - which might be frustrating.

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