Are you open about being an atheist or are you in the closet?

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Permalink Reply by Idaho Spud on December 27, 2011 at 12:02pm

I'm usually open about being an atheist if it comes-up, but I'm very tired of the stupidity of religion.  Wish I lived where you do Jimmy.  If I had the money, I'd visit Sweden and other secular countries, and probably change my citizenship.

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Permalink Reply by Jeffrey Samuelson on December 10, 2011 at 8:07pm

I am 100% open about my atheism. I even have atheist dogtags (I'm in the military, so I'm "officially" atheist too). Even so, I tend to be sensitive to context, and seldom look for opportunities to share my views on religion. If the subject comes up (and it does, from time to time), I express myself firmly & fairly, but also try to stay focused on material issues rather than the labels we apply to ourselves. 

It can be difficult, though, so I see where you're coming from.For me, it took some time but I finally realized that my fears were unjustified. As the saying goes, if they can't accept you for who you are, they're not really your friends. Of course, it would be harder with family. Plus, I have it easy, living here in the U.S.. There are places in the world where it's downright deadly to confess non-belief. 

One thing, though: I never thought of myself as "bad" for not believing, so your statement about not wanting people to think you're a "bad" person strikes me as a little odd. Probably something to do with our different experiences. 

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Permalink Reply by Nickole Johnson on December 18, 2011 at 9:59am

I'm open about it- lots of people (family and former friends) don't like me now, but I'm okay with that. I figure if they only liked me because they thought I was a Christian just like them, then I'm better off without them.

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Permalink Reply by Scott A. Hunt on December 18, 2011 at 3:58pm

100% out.

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Permalink Reply by The Doubter on December 18, 2011 at 5:26pm

Loud and proud......fuck the faith heads!!!:)

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Permalink Reply by Zach Law on December 19, 2011 at 8:28pm

I'm not out. A few close friends know and I think anyone with half a brain who follows me on Facebook would get the picture. A lot of family members are Catholic, ranging from liberal to not so much. I dunno. I don't like making people feel uncomfortable, and I'm sure this will do so. At the same time I know that 90% of the folks I know would shrug their shoulders.

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Permalink Reply by Ashley on December 27, 2011 at 9:11am

I'm right there with you. I work in Kansas. I said happy winter solstice to someone and got the stink eye. I'm mostly in the closet as most of my family are fundies. I'm glad I have this place where I can be myself. 

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Permalink Reply by Joy Cody on December 27, 2011 at 2:50am

I'm about 50/50. I'm not worried or ashamed to tell people, but it's really no one's business. I'm not a sharing kind of girl for the most part.

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Permalink Reply by Sandi on December 27, 2011 at 9:01am

100% out. Always have been. Born and bred atheist.

I am thankful that I don't associate in circles where religious views are an issue, but if asked I will proudly tell that I am an atheist. My close family are atheists too, or not too religious and in my view, as long as I am not preaching atheism to them, it isn't an issue and if it is, that is their problem, not mine.

I will not debate the bible or any other fantastical religious stories with people as I do not wish to waste my time on such a ridiculous subject, I simply choose to opt out of the conversation or change the subject.

I feel for those that cannot be proud and out atheists. You should not be judged for your stance.

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Permalink Reply by Idaho Spud on December 27, 2011 at 12:43pm

I'm mostly out.  I waited until my Dad died, but told my Mother & siblings a year ago in a letter.  I told my church a few months before that in my resignation letter.  When I do talk about it with religious people, I don't call them names or get pushy about it, but other than that, I do say what I think if they bring the subject up.

I don't advertise it on my car because I can't afford to repair any damage from radical believers.  I don't tell people that handle my food, or my doctors & nurses.  Just doesn't seem worth the risk.  Well, I did let it slip with my Urologist and my main doctor's nurse because they mentioned it first.  An old friend & coworker saw me in the store the other day, gave me a hug and asked what I was doing for Xmas.  She wasn't asking a religious question, so I saw no reason to let her know.

I'm not a very social person, so I don't talk with many people about it.  I'd like to talk to my brothers and sisters more about it, but so far none of them have brought the subject up and I don't want to annoy them by bringing it up again until they do.  The exception is one sister that spouted all the religious BS she was indoctrinated with in an email.  I replied to each religious argument with logic and evidence, and so far, she hasn't mentioned it again.

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Permalink Reply by Philip Jackson Armstrong on December 27, 2011 at 4:04pm

This subject always interests me. I have never been anything but atheist and have never had a problem.

I have no problem stating my position.

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Permalink Reply by Caleb Owens on December 27, 2011 at 4:42pm

I  was in  the  open  when i  lived  in LA,  but  now i'm  in  hiding  because  the  town  is  so  small  and  very  religious. II  know  they'd  fire  me  at  my  job.  everyone  knows  everyone  here.

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